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ok so there is this guy i kind of like. It's not a big deal i just like him a little bit. But still, i want him ti like me. He is way nice and so so funny. We have two classes together and we sit next to eachother in one and talk like the entire time! I went to a dance with him and we had a really good time. But, i think he likes another girl. I know some people who says he does. I can't help but be jealous! i don't want to know a way to make him like me because there really is not a way of doing so. I guess i just want to know how to act around him to let him know i'm available? I guess that's the way to put it. I just want him to maybe be a little interested. Have him know i am a fun person, and we could have something good. It sounds pretty lame and stupid but help!! (link)
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Dear So there's this guy,
This can be a frustrating situation to be in I think we have all been there at some point. However, the key to getting beyond this is learn how guys think. Now we think on the level I am interested so why can't we just talk. Guys don't unfortunately. What attracts a guy to a female is a sense of mystery a sense of I don't quite have her yet. So if this is someone you could see yourself with you have to get out of the friend zone and step into the girlfriend zone. The way you do this is to step away from him meaning become busy if you can change seats in class do so. If he asks why tell him you like switching things up, if you talk a lot on the phone say that you have other things to do. Basically what I am saying is get a life and once you get one he becomes interested in you even more and will work to find a place in your life. Men like the chase and if it is obvious to him that you like him without him having to work for your affection he will mistake it for the love of a sister or even worse a mother and what do most people do two those people they take them for granted. So you have to ask yourself "Do I want to be seen as mama? Or do I want to be seen as the girl he can't wait to win her heart? You decide. Work it girl! God Bless!
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So, I absolutely hate Valentines day. I've been single for all of them, and they make single people feel lonely.
So, I'm going out with a group of friends, and most of them are single too. If I do meet someone in a bar(that's where we go) on Saturday night, what are some good flirting tips and such to get a guys attention, but not be all over him. There are a lot of cute single guys in places that we go, but I'm too shy to just go up to them but sometimes they join us, and I have no idea what to do...
I'm getting tired of being single, but I don't really know how to get guys to notice me a bit more. I'm not that ugly, so I've been told...but I guess it's more a lack of confidence.
So yeah, any tips? :P
16/f by the way. (link)
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Dear Another Valentines day alone, I think many people have been where you are right now. However, things will not begin to change until you change the way you are viewing your situation. You mention that you are single hanging out with a lot of other singles. It's time to step out of the pack. Also, start affirming to yourself that you are irresistable and any guy would be crazy not to want you. Keep repeating it to yourself and you will notice your confidence began to increase and your behavior will attract men who feel the same way that you feel about yourself. Remember when you want a different outcome in life do something different. The fact that you are seeking advice lets me know that you are looking to make changes. So go for it. Work it girl! God Bless!
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Okay, well me and my "now" boyfriend just started going out today. Valentines day is in less than a week and i have NO IDEA what to get him! He dosen't wear stuff from hollister or abercrombie or basically any mall clothes for that matter. He has a very different style and i just dont want to get him the wrong thing. We have no pictures or anything so i dont know what to do! today is the first day we have been going out so i am a little confused! Any help would be great! thanks! (link)
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Dear Valentines day trouble, first congrats on the new relationship. Second, before you wreck your brain on what to buy him try to understand the basics of guys. The basics that I am referring to is that they would rather be the givers in the relationships its in their nature. Since you have just started dating him go the unique route. You always want to be different from the next chic. The typical chic will buy clothing cologne but the one who stands out will plan a romantic event like a indoor picnic or a simple item for the first letter of his name. Just be creative and he will appreciate it more than a typical gift. Try it! Good skills and God Bless!
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