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Another Valntines day alone...
So, I absolutely hate Valentines day. I've been single for all of them, and they make single people feel lonely.
So, I'm going out with a group of friends, and most of them are single too. If I do meet someone in a bar(that's where we go) on Saturday night, what are some good flirting tips and such to get a guys attention, but not be all over him. There are a lot of cute single guys in places that we go, but I'm too shy to just go up to them but sometimes they join us, and I have no idea what to do...
I'm getting tired of being single, but I don't really know how to get guys to notice me a bit more. I'm not that ugly, so I've been told...but I guess it's more a lack of confidence.
So yeah, any tips? :P
16/f by the way.
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Dear Another Valentines day alone, I think many people have been where you are right now. However, things will not begin to change until you change the way you are viewing your situation. You mention that you are single hanging out with a lot of other singles. It's time to step out of the pack. Also, start affirming to yourself that you are irresistable and any guy would be crazy not to want you. Keep repeating it to yourself and you will notice your confidence began to increase and your behavior will attract men who feel the same way that you feel about yourself. Remember when you want a different outcome in life do something different. The fact that you are seeking advice lets me know that you are looking to make changes. So go for it. Work it girl! God Bless!
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Just be yourself, yeah sounds corny and over said, but it's true. Confidence definitely plays a major key. It's like saying "Yeah, I have flaws. Do I care? PSHH!". Never appear to be conceded though, that's just.. annoying. Never the less, keep conversation open, and don't seem too interested, if that makes sense. When a girl comes on to be very interested, or clingy.. it's kind of mirroring that she's insecure. That goes for girls and guys. Honestly, I think you'll do fine. You seem like once you're there and meet the right guy you'll know what to do. Trust your girl instincts! And I've found if you don't look, they come to you.
As for Valentines Day. I don't celebrate it. Like my friend once said, everyday should be a Valentines Day if you're in a relationship. It's really no big deal. Think of all this as an opportunity! Being single is sometimes a lot more fun then you think.<3 Good luck, hun.
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Definitely be confident! That is the best thing you can do. If someone comes to you/your group, talk to them. Ask questions about them. And then you'll be in the middle of a conversation without even realizing it.
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