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get a career
ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and his 20 years old im 18.since he graduated high school he just worked as a security guard for $11.50 an hour his always broke because he live with his parents and their house is in for foreclose and his helping them pay the bills.his mom doesnt work cause she got in a car accident and his dad is also a security guard.what annoys me is that he has no goals for the future his parents and i are trying to make him go back to school to get a career but he keeps saying he cant right now he has to help with the bills.he works only on saturdays during the week he hangs out with friends and sleep or help his mom out.his such an awesome guy but im getting frustrated i cant plan for the future with a scub .i love him and its hard to even think about living him i dont know how long this is going to last.
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that's great he's helping sick family you should be proud i would love a job that pays 11.50 an hour.but he needs to work more on that job during the week and trade school is a cheap option he can be a welder,emt,some places have lawyers,carpenters
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I tried to make a boyfriend of mine go back to school. He has to be the one to make up his mind. I understand about the parent thing I have given my parents money on top of money and they didn't really help me much in return. But you need to be open with him. Make him realize hey I love you I want to be with you and you need to figure out what you want to do with your life or I'm just going to have to take a seperate road you are going to have to be strong if hes not going to change you are going to be stuck with the same old same old. Its even harder knowing you love him but you have to be strong and talk to him.
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Yea I know what you mean guys are hard to motivate or talk to about the future or going back to school . I do think he is right in the place that he says he has to help with the bills but spending the week with his friends and doing whatever sounds pretty bad he need a major wake up call on that . I think it would help to find out what sort of career hes interested in and finding a place for that and just suggesting it to him. You can't really expect a guy to do something without a little push to it . Have a talk with him and explain your side and everything should turn out great.Good luck !
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