Member Since: January 21, 2009
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Last Update: January 22, 2009
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ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and his 20 years old im 18.since he graduated high school he just worked as a security guard for $11.50 an hour his always broke because he live with his parents and their house is in for foreclose and his helping them pay the bills.his mom doesnt work cause she got in a car accident and his dad is also a security guard.what annoys me is that he has no goals for the future his parents and i are trying to make him go back to school to get a career but he keeps saying he cant right now he has to help with the bills.he works only on saturdays during the week he hangs out with friends and sleep or help his mom out.his such an awesome guy but im getting frustrated i cant plan for the future with a scub .i love him and its hard to even think about living him i dont know how long this is going to last. (link)
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I tried to make a boyfriend of mine go back to school. He has to be the one to make up his mind. I understand about the parent thing I have given my parents money on top of money and they didn't really help me much in return. But you need to be open with him. Make him realize hey I love you I want to be with you and you need to figure out what you want to do with your life or I'm just going to have to take a seperate road you are going to have to be strong if hes not going to change you are going to be stuck with the same old same old. Its even harder knowing you love him but you have to be strong and talk to him.
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I have had severe depression. Over Christmas break my mom transferred me to online school, which is a disaster. My computer isn't high tech enough and we don't have money to spare. So now I either have to find another solution or face school again. I hate school. So much that I started faking sick... a lot. I don't get along with people my age and the school environment fries my nerves. It's so depressing and humiliating that I'll have to go back after thinking I'd escaped or found a solution.
P.S. I don't think school is the cause of my depression but it definitely helps contribute to wearing me down. (link)
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I'm very shy I'm debatin whether or not to go back to school Its hard for me to make friends. But be thankful u have the opportunity to go back to school some people don't look at it a a different point of view do things you love that will help get out of the depression.
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I feel like I am trapped. Every week I continuously want to kill myself. I come closer each week to actually doing it. I jumped off a bridge and broke my back once just to feel the pain. In the last year my parents have divorced, put me into the middle of it by cheating and i found out. i lost my boyfriend. I went from being anorexic and the fastest girl on my cross country running team to the slowest and fat. I cant lose weight...each week i try and for about 3-5 days i do and then i overeat and gain it all back, sometimes more. I had almost made it to the olympic trials last year before i snapped. My hormones have gone and i take synthetic ones now but i dont feel the same. I feel like i am going to be fat forever. I cant date because i am so ashamed of myself and insecure. what would you do in my position? (link)
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Don't kill yourself.Dont worry about your parents there adults they can take care of there self. Don't be ashamed of yourself I 'm over weight but I"m loosing it my boyfriend accepts me for who I am and if he didn't accept me for who I am I would leave him. Get involved in a hobbie stay busy get your mind off your problems. I hope this helps
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Hey im 17/f i have been seeing this guy for a couple weeks now and we really hit it off. I want to get him something cute for valentines day. But idk if hes going to get me anything. I would feel dumb if i got him something and he didnt have anything to give to me. Do you have any ideas on what i could get him. Nothing too huge, but something that says im here, i like you alot and i care. Thanks alot!! (link)
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Go to the movies. Get him his favorite candy. Go out to eat somewhere. Take a picture of you and him put it in a frame.
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