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Hi guys ATTENTION!!!

FAKE SPAMS have been going around and trying to get ADVICENATORS.....dont be caught in penpal spam

Young women (pretending to be from west africa like senegal or dakar) will send you emails stating something along the lines of "my father was a millionaire, my mom died and i'm the only one that survived, and now i'm in a refugee camp"
DO NOT BELIEVE THIS.

her email is julietnkaje2007@yahoo.com

here's a website where other people have had similar situations if you wanna check it out, and here's the email i got and decided to check up on.


http://www.419scam.org/419-penpal.htm


this is what she sent me
""HI
My name is Juliet nkaje ,i saw your profile today in (www.advicenators.com) and became intrested in you,i will also like to know you more,and i want you to send an email to my email address so i can give you my picture for you to know whom i am.
Here is my email address (julietnkaje2007@yahoo.com)
I believe we can move from here!
I am waiting for your mail to my email address above..
(Remeber the distance or colour does not matter but love matters alot in life) yours "

and again :

"My dear,
Am happy in your reply to my mail. How is your day over there in your country i hope you are fine? My name is Juliet nkaje ( 24 ) single and never married, i am 5.6 height 49 wight, fair in compilation nice looking understanding and sincere young girl.i am from Liberia in west Africa but presently i am residing in refugee camp here in Dakar Senegal,as a result of the civil war that was fought in my country then i found my self in UN refugee camp and i am writing you with the hope that you be a help hand to me over my situation.

My late father Mr Morgan nkaje was the one in charge of the diamond sales in Government in monrovia the capital of Liberia and he is also the personal advice to the former head of state before the rebels attacked our house one early morning and killing my mother and my father,

It was only me that is alive now and i managed to make my way to near by country Senegal where i am living now as a refugee under UN refugee camp in Senegal so .I will like to know more about you. Your likes and dislike,your hobbies and what you are doing presently you work all about you as. I will tell you more about myself in my next mail . Attached here is my picture and i will like to see your picture too, Hoping to hear from you
Yours Juliet"

(link)
she sent it to me to but i'll see were it leads if i get screwed i guess i get screwed over then


I have weird pimple-like things on my back. They go away and come back and get worse and better, but I cant make them disappear completely. why is this and what can i do to get rid of them? (link)
it might be boils when they get big you will have to have a doc take a knife and cut them open to drain from the people i know they say they hurt


i have a TON of pet peeves. like i have a list that fills up over a sheet of paper. some are the weirdest things too like wet paper towels. if something oocurs that i cant do something about (like throw away the wet paper towel) i end up on the floor crying and shaking and being extreemly mad. why is this? are they just pet peeves? (link)
ocd plus biploar never know everyone says i'm biploar but my whole family is like me we just hate to be screwed over


ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and his 20 years old im 18.since he graduated high school he just worked as a security guard for $11.50 an hour his always broke because he live with his parents and their house is in for foreclose and his helping them pay the bills.his mom doesnt work cause she got in a car accident and his dad is also a security guard.what annoys me is that he has no goals for the future his parents and i are trying to make him go back to school to get a career but he keeps saying he cant right now he has to help with the bills.he works only on saturdays during the week he hangs out with friends and sleep or help his mom out.his such an awesome guy but im getting frustrated i cant plan for the future with a scub .i love him and its hard to even think about living him i dont know how long this is going to last. (link)
that's great he's helping sick family you should be proud i would love a job that pays 11.50 an hour.but he needs to work more on that job during the week and trade school is a cheap option he can be a welder,emt,some places have lawyers,carpenters


I'm crying pretty damn hard right now, i keep thinking about bush getting on that helicopter to texas. it's seriously so, so sad i can't stop crying

i didn't even know him or pay attention to the politics

but i love him
and i miss him :( (link)
if he's black i'll kiss your ass he is half b/w most of us have black mixed with us somewhere down the lien so he's not special.

i voted for mccain but since obama won and me being pro U.S and Pro Gevernment i'm behind obama 100 percent he is our president and its a tough job


i want to die, i am having no interest to live, i tried my level best to die but i didnt get success. All doors closed for me i am not in position to live. my proffession is not successful my love is big failure. I am having no interest to live please help me (link)
you can succeed you have to believe in yourself I've been where you are now minus the killing myself but i've been where it feels like life is suffocating you and binding you down makes you want to stay in bed all the time moping also been through a few anxiety attacks.with failure you can turn it into anything like the first poster said one door closes another opens your profession isn't successful quit it find something that makes you happy.Even in the tough times you can find something you love take a vacation you do'nt want to end your life because you may not think your actions affect someone but everyone's action affect others mine affect your and yours mine


My cat has scabs, or really weird things on the back of her head.
What is causing this?
How can I help?
Is it hurting her? (link)
sounds like what my cat has its allergies fleas dont help it any either go to the vet and ask for an allergy shot for your cat once a month and there will be no scabs it is a cheap shot and you have to keep giving it to the cat once a month


okay so me and my friend are sort of sharing this dog.
and like she gave it to me,
and like i really cant buy dog food right now and i dont know why the heck i didnt think about asking her to bring me dog food (dumb i know).
but like u know those frozen vegetables?
well i cooked them and let them cool.and hes eating it, i mean it looks like it likes it but is it healthy for it??.
and what time of dog food do i get.
hes like almost 1. and a weiner dog.
what are you supposed to feed those
THANKS SO MUCH (link)
grandpaw used to use cornbread believe he put bacon pieces in it and he would feed them that


We just got a black lab/boxer mix. He is a great boy, very friendly and seems perfectly healthy. We just got him 4 days ago, and at first he wouldn't eat or drink and now he is a little more settled and he is eating and drinking normal amounts.
My problem is randomly in the house he will pee clear, and its a lot. Like he just lets loose, he doesn't lift his leg he just stands there or he will keep walking. It has no odor, and it looks like water.
Do you think he is drinking to much, or something else? He plays fine, only cries when he is not being pet, he doesn't cry or anything when he pee's. Please let me help me, what do you think?? (link)
pee is supposed to be clear even ours needs to be to be healthy. most pups i've seen pee like that


i've already talked to my neighbors and complained about their dogs but he does nothing, i am looking for something to stop those dogs from barking i'd like for it to go through the fence & have a remote if possible. where would i be able to find this?
sites or stores please & thank you (link)
what the hell is he supposed to do scream.dont you drae put anything on it let the owner by and put it on its not your dog to do anything with


Im thinking about getting a pit bull puppy. I was wondering if anyone has a pit bull and what they could tell me about their experiences and what advice they could give. Anything is appreciated!! (link)
get you one they are great to have people say they are mean but they are only as mean as people make them i had a mutt that would bite you for a little bit of nothing(lol my ma hit a fly off of my arm and he thought she hurt me and snapped at her)


I have a six year old dog, who is refusing to eat, she is barely drinking. She will not walk on her own, as her body is very weak. She is vomiting, and has thrown up blood. She will randomly shake, and she is loosing weight only in her neck area, and legs. Yet, she has not shown any sign of pain.
Can anyone tell me what may be wrong with her, or even what would cause these things? (link)
copenhagen skoal usually works if it has worms and dont listen to the first person about loving your dog we dont have enough money to feed and take them to docs but liek others dogs cant say ouch he i'm hurting right here


I have 2 gerbils, and I love them very much. I really want to get more, but my mom and dad won't let me because I sometimes forget to feed them. I notice in a day or 2, and they never eat a lot of food anyway, so there's no harm, but my parents are still set in stone. How can I convince them? (link)
i had a gerbil and he was the same way they have these little cups aobut an inch high and it usually lasts then a week if you fill it full.(they are living they like to eat everyday don't you)


umm well yeahh ive been a cutter since i was eleven and and i wnt to noe how to stop ive asked mi mom but she dsnt seem to care she noes i cut but stiill i wnt to noe how to stop (link)
here are some sites that may help

http://www.covenanthouse.org/mb/index.php?showtopic=21090

also a phone number to call
1-800-DONT-CUT i got it from the internet so not sure if its valid but all the same i hope it is


dog spitting up blood (link)
just that info tells me sounds like late stage heart worms i had a dog that died of them and i had to put another down before it got that bad usually with heartworms making them do that my vet said they could try but it would be expensive and may not actually work also my dog had renal kidney failure if he didnt have that i wouldnt have had to put him down.but go to vet and check to make sure could have cut throught or have ulcers in stomach making him do that.also check his/her crap for worms


Hello. My name is Bobby, I`m 32 and from London. I no longer want to live. I am not in an irrational state of mind and niether do I suffer from a debilitating mental illness. I obviously have issues but I have a fire in my heart and I strongly believe death is the only solution for me in order to exorcise this pain. Yes I am sad and lonely and have no friends and have debts and have little money and no prospects but I do not want anything anymore. Death has become a beautiful dream for me and all I want from the almighty is death. If people in physical pain are sometimes allowed to die (euthanasia) then why can someone in extreme emotional pain not be allowed to do the same. My pain is too great and too deep to be simply diagnosed and treated via therapy or drugs or a combination of the 2. My pain has paralysed me emotionally and has left me a pathetic and useless wreck. I must have the same rights to die as someone in physical pain. I don`t want attention and niether do I want to be celebrated (I`m a nobody after all) so this is not a plea for help or some pathetic attention seeking rant. I genuinely want to die. If society can accept the self-death of someone in physical pain then why can it not accept the death of someone in emotional pain. Who`s to say my pain is not equal or greater than that someone? (link)
no its not acceptable every life is worth something.also killing people with chronic pain is also illegal.you have worth everyone does from a baby to an older person to even a mentally challenged person changes someones life for the good.go to therapy they have medicine that can help.try new things go sky diving or bungee jumping to me thats as close as dying because you are kind of free falling for a while bet after you do that you ill think twice.hope you get well soon and remember anyone you meet touches your life somehow and you touch theirs also


I pay my daughter's mother $430.00 in child support every month and she expects me to pay additional money for a cell phone to keep in contact with our child? Should I pay for my daughter's cell phone or is keeping her in contact with me her mother's job? (link)
if you pay child support regular good man i'm 18 and in back child support my dad still owes me over 4k but our child support woman wont question the state about it but tell your ex to kiss your ass that the landline works just as good


I'm a single mother of two kids, working full-time and going to college part-time. Through the years since I've been divorced, my little brother moved in with me to help me out. My parents bought a house and rent it to us. We split the rent and all bills evenly.

In September of this year, my brother lost his job. Since the economy is so bad, he's had a really hard time finding work, and takes whatever job he can to make extra cash, but can't seem to find a full-time job. So, for the past 4 months, I've been paying all of his bills, except for rent. He's racked up about $800 that he owes me. And I'll probably never see a dime of that.

He helps out sometimes, by watching my kids for me while I run to the store. And just the other day he fixed a water leak in our house. But for the most part, he sleeps, eats my food, watches cable tv that I pay for and plays video games. He was promised a job by my boss, but construction is slow right now and they don't need him. So instead of seeking other employment, he stays at home waiting for work. He's getting unemployment money, but I haven't seen any of it. Instead, I see him buying beer and cigarettes.

When I talk to my parents about him, they seem to think that I should just deal with it. But this is driving me absolutely CRAZY! I couldn't get my kids much for Christmas. I can't even buy myself a new pair of shoes because my kids need some and I can't even afford that.

I was told by my parents that if I kick him out, they will make me pay the entire amount of rent, which I can't afford. I'm so confused about what to do. Should I just deal with this? (link)
first off pull on the big girl undies and dont go to mom and dad they shouldnt have to help you decide things he does for you like with the kids and that leak deduct it off what he owes you or things that need fixed deduct it off so that way he actually pays for hisself plus dont be a hardass about a job its not like he can race right out and find a job in this lovely recession or make him get a job at a fast food place


im 18 years old. a girl. and ive had sex with 16 guys. I don't know why I let myself get that bad. It's wayy too many guys and only a few of them have been my boyfreinds...others are just hook ups.
I always tell my self to not let things like that happen, but I just can't help it, I dont know what to do. I like the feeling of being with a guy because it makes me feel wanted and accepted...but it needs to stop. I just don't know how. (link)
sorry but you have the will power of a rat turd. hang around your dad get a steady job and then look for a boyfriend(way i say hang around your dad is i bet you have daddy issues)


I adopted a 7 year old cat in mid-november. She pooped on the floor a few times during the first month, but lately has been doing it more often. The weird thing is that she also poops in her litter box, actually she poops there most of the time. It's just every once in awhile (and more often lately) that she leaves her droppings just outside her litter box, or very nearby. A few rare times she has also pooped in the kitchen on the rug. Why is she doing this? How can I get her to stop? She uses her litter box for pooping and urinating, so why the random droppings? (link)
my cats do that too usually means they want us to get off our ass and clean it we dont like skidding around in our crap and they dont either




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