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Betrayal??
Well lets see there this boy that i liked last year and well i still like him. But lets go to the past for a minute well i liked this boy and one of my friends she has a class with him and she ask me if she can talk to him for me. And i said yea. So she be talking to him for me and trying to get me hooked up with him and stuff. So then this is were it comes to the present well i just found out from another of one of my friends that the boy i like wanna her to hook them up together and i ask who was it and she wouldnt tell me. So then thats when i found out that the person who wanna hook up with him was the friend that tried to hook me up with him last year. And so both of my friends were going behind my back with this. And they thought i didnt know about it but i actually do know all about it and they are trying to keeo it a secret. And in my case i think it is wrong because they both knew i like him and be trying to get with him for as long as i can remeber.And to make it less compucated (these are not real names) but the friend that tried hooking me up with him is kate and now she likes him and asking another one of my friends to hook them up together which name is melissa. And melissa also knows i like him. So tell me what you think. IS this wrong for them to do this to me or is it just me.
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HECK NO! There in the wrong. The same thing happedn to me and one of my friends. And well I didnt speak to her for the whole school year, not b/c I was being a bitch, but becuase she needed to know that she was in the wrong and had lost a good friend. On the part of the boy he ended up being her boyfriend for some time, but was still trying to get with me behind her back, and even though I really liked him and wanted for her to feel how I felt about the situation, I just told him I didnt like him when it was a lie. So I was being the bigger person. But now we talk sometimes but I've kept that whole "friendship" thing to a minimum because I had found it in myself to forgive her but I havent and will never forget, so I think that maybe it'll be strenghening to you if you confront these thousands of girls trying to get with him lol! but seriously you should confront your friends about the situation, after that the feelings that you have left would probably determine how you'll handle it and the boy. goo luck!
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Hey there,
It is most definitely wrong of them to do this behind your back. It just goes to show how inconsiderate they are of your feelings.
Instead of getting your friends to talk to this boy, perhaps you should show just a little bit more confidence and talk to him yourself.
I know the thought of that might make your bones shiver... BUT, guys like confidence in girls. Show that you are interested in this boy and show your friends that you don't need them to get a boy to talk to you.
If this boy decides to like you instead of your friend then you totally win.. if on the other hand he decides to like your friend then at least you'll have the experience of talking to a guy you like and the expectations for next time.
Good luck... hope I helped :)
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