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Is it normal that she dosn't care?
Okay, my friend, Linda, got into a argument with my other friend, Stacy, and made Stacy cry. In Linda's defence, though, Stacy hadn't been being such a great friend.
Anyway, even though Linda made Stacy cry, she really does not care. She was just able to turn her back so easily. She has gotten into fights like this before, where she hurts the other person, and really dosn't care.
Then, it's like other people can say mean things to her and insult her, and she can just ignore it like its not there and dosn't care.
A lot of the time its like she only has two emotions, happy and mad. I've seen her cry, but it's like, shes so mad shes crying. She can get pretty agrsive when shes mad too. Like she'll scream and curse and even punched walls.
She is a really good friend and is really funny and jokes a lot, but she dosn't seem to care about a lot of things. She cares a lot about her family and would do anything for them. But everything else its like, she can just leave it.
Once none of her friends spoke to her a day (like, completly ignored them), and she was completly unfazed. And every now and then she'll fail a test (she normally gets 90's and works hard for them) and she acts like its nothing.
Its also like, shes the one girl I know who dosn't like hugs from people outside her family. When someone hugs her, even if its her friend, she'll give them a "what are you doing?" look. There's only very rare times when she dosn't do that.
She also wears manily black and black iliener and sometiems black eye shadow.
Is this normal?
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Girls can definitely be like that, and it's common around age 13. Stacy might act like she doesn't care about anything because she's holding back a lot. She may not be comfortable with opening up. She could be hiding those feelings behind the way she dresses and the way she seems to act tough. The way she acts when she gets into arguments may be her way of venting and letting out her emotions. Also you don't know what's going on in her life, she can be going through things that may not be anyone else's business. And with the hugging, it's understandable that she's uncomfortable with it. Some people aren't touchy feely. Anyway I would keep all of these possibilities in mind, but don't accuse her of any of them.
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This friend sounds alot like me around that age, I was very quiet and dark clothes wearing, but I could be loud ad jokingly funny. She may be depressed about something, or perhaps a quiet person. For her not to care about making other people cry, it could be that.. well she just doesn't know how to express sympathy.. I know I still have a problem with sympathy. My parents hardly ever had sympathy for anything.
I wouldn't worrie to much, just drama.
Remember, if life was drama free, we'd all die of boredom.
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