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my boyfriend wants to finger me ...
my boyfriend wants to finger me but i have a few questions....1. does it hurt? or what does it feel like? (i dont use tampons and dont really stick anything up there but have have my clitoris rubbed) 2. how do you properly clean the vagina so that it doesn't smell? 3. what do you do while hes fingering you? and 4. do guys like it completely shaved or with a little hair?
i know its alot of questions so id appreciate answers to any of them. thank youu
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1. If your wet, then no. tell him to go easy and if it hurts tell him.
2. With soap if you can douche, just clean it like you normally would.
3. Kiss, move around, tell him how it feels, rub on his body, anything you feel like.
4. shave itt. It would be much cleaner, and i know my boyfriend prefers it shaved.
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1. Yes
2. Douche
3. Moan
4. Shave
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Most guys don't realize that female genitals are far more sensitive and delicate than their own. They are often rough and that's why it hurts. You need to be in control and tell him what you like. Most females prefer clitoral stimulation over penetration. It will hurt if he's just ramming his fingers hoping it satisfies you. Tell him what you enjoy and guide him.
As far as smell goes unless you have an infection you're worrying about nothing. Like the previous poster indicated trying to wash inside or clean it out leads to problems with infection.
The vagina has/is doing it's job properly as a self-cleansing organ. Just remember genitals aren't supposed to smell like a rose garden. Hair is a preference issue if you have it it's normal if not and you like that it's fine. A guy needs to accept both as normal or he's too immature to be doing this.
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if he keeps going on about it just tell him to quit it coz i have been there my self youre not the only one
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Well.. as they other chic said, it's important that you want to experiece your boyfriend fingering you. She's also right, you should deffently get to know your body, try to plesure yourself on your own. Fingering yourself doesn't really hurt. As the lady before me said, hot water and soup is the best way to go. Well, he's fingering you, he'll probable also stimulate the clitoris, which will make you feel good, and you'll figure out what to do with yourself from there on. Also, if you want to impress you're boyfriend, why not ask him how he'd like you.. weather it be shaved, trimed, or just the way it is. :D GoOd Luck, and remember Masturbation is Healthy.
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Before I answer any of these questions-Please-are you sure you want your boyfriend to finger you? You say he wants to do it to you, but that is not what matters. What do you want?
Next-This is going to sound weird, but why don't you try it on yourself? You will be able to tell what it feels like. I say, until you are able to do it to yourself you have no business letting anyone else. As far as the cleaning-don't bother to try any perfumes, douche, etc. None of them work, and they can actually make things worse. The best way to clean your vagina is soap and water, but an experienced woman will masturbate because it cleanses everything out. You might not be ready for that kind of wisdom, yet, but I think you should spend a little time getting to know your own body before you let anyone else go exploring. Don't worry about shaving, yet. Why don't you just trim it nice and neat with scissors?
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