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Between a friendship
Hey, im 16f.
You know how when you have a best friend and you tell eachother you will never let a guy come between your friendship? Well, what if your 'friend' totally dumped you as a friend for a guy... and on top of that, this guy she dumped you for is your brother! .. :/ What would you do? Obviously she never was my friend to begin with if she would do this.
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i totally agree with you. this person might have not been your friend to begin with. not trying to start any drama but maybe she was using you to get to your brother or maybe she does not know how to manage having a boyfriend and a best friend. Talk to her and see what the deal is. But come to her gently or drama will start.
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I have two solutions
IF this is her first serious relationship, it is normal for her to blow you off.
Every girl does, its a natural thing.
I would just go about my business, when she realizes what she's lost, she'll try to get it back, and then, maybe you'll be in a relationship, and you can show her, how she treated you.
OR
You can sit your brother down, and tell him how this is hurting you. Maybe he'll try to talk to her, you can never underestimate, the effect people have on others.
Hope I helped!
Goodluck!
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I don't think she would intensionally try to upset you, maybe she just thought you would be okay with it, i don't think you should stop being her friend over it unlesss you feel shes blowing you off for him or is doing this to upset you or she just ignores you now. Sometimes friends relationships are hard to deal with but im sure if you stick with her it will be over soon enough and she'll be glad she didn't loose you.
hope i helped(:
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i can understand your sitution but let it go she will start talking to you soon.
keepin it real
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