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my moms boyfriend again is acting stupid.
Ok my moms boyfriend is about the same age as you are. My problem with him is that he seems to want to know about my business. And when he wants something it has to be done. and whatever he thinks its what my mom has to follow. It gives me a problem cause my life is my life. I dont think that just cause he is around or help us out a little that he can just act like he owns us both. I dont apreciate being insulted and that is what seems to be coming from his mouth. He is a freaking idiot. I accept him very whole heartedly but he makes it bad.
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Wow, this guy sounds like a jerk.
Have you talked to your mom about this?
I mean, sitting down and having a calm conversation without either of you getting angry or irritated. (When such emotions flare, people start talking AT each other, rather than TO each other. Neither person actually listens when the whole talking at thing happens.)
This is my opinion.
He is her BOYFRIEND, not her HUSBAND. Meaning, he is not your step father, therefore has no business telling you how to run your life. That is HER place, not his.
If she wants to follow his lead about everything, then that is on her. It's her life to live. HOWEVER. Wouldn't things be that much easier if you weren't expected to play follow the leader with this guy?
Most importantly, you need to make sure your mother understands that he insults you, which upsets and hurts you.
You should NEVER be expected to put up with being insulted by ANYONE.
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