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is this right or wrongg
okay so i wrote an earlier question about this and hers like another story to it. and so it was sorta like me and my friend hung out with these boys named charlie and noah and craig. they went home and i was tellin my friend how i though i might have a crush on charlie and i could see myself dating him. so she said that i should talk to him. well then she started talkin to him and now they are datingg. yes she did talk to me about it like was askin me if i was okay wit it. but like really if ur friend likes a guy and you told them to go for it. you dont go for it so like offcoarse i was like yea idc whatever cause im a nice friend. well like they have been dating fo rlike 2 almost 3 weeks. so he messaged me on myspace a few days ago and told me he liked me and that this girl like hasnt really givin him a reason to break up wit her. so i was like wow okay. like i really like hima nd like i have sorta been talkin to him. but like is this right or is it wrong? cause he might dump her for me so i dont know if its wrong. helpp haha
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I don't think it is wrong at all. Her so called "Friend" started this whole mess by going out with Charlie in the first place. If there is anyone to blame it's her, because she was the one who went ut with Charlie in the first place, knowing that you liked him. If your "friend" is really your friend then she will accept that you two boh love each other and want to be together. If she can't accept that then that is her problem and she truelly isn't your friend.
Sometimes it's ok to cause a drama if you are fighting for something important.
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Well it's not really wrong, in my opinion. It's just drama lol.
SO, i know you told your friend first that you liked him but sometimes that makes it more attractive to other girls to go for the same guy. And sometimes guys will go for any cute girl, ya know? not to be mean.
If he really does like you, then you should go for it. Just try to keep things cool with your friend too, because situations like that tend to create problems. Tell her something like "i know you were with him and you liked him, but so did i and i told you about it first. Don't get mad if he likes me back." Maybe not exactly in those words but something like that. Just keep things cool, and if you and the guy like eachother, then there's no point in him staying with a girl he doesn't like.
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