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Well me name's Michelle
I'm 13, well I'm kinda 14 my bday is in March XD
I live in Melbourne, Ausralia
I absoulutely love my friends to death
And I love giving them advice. They always say that they can come to me for help (especially friendship problems) cos they can trust me to give them good advice and keep their secrets safe.
I always seem to have an answer to questions, so you can count on me to help you out.
I also love answering music questions.
If you need some songs for a mix CD or you just wanna know not ask what's hot and what's me and I'll find some ones matching your theme or taste EASILY!

Love ya!
Michelle xx

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oKAY, i LOVE TO WEAR CUTE, COMFORTABLE HOODIES. I like to have namebrand hoodies too, sometimes. (it doesnt really matter to me.) anyways I was wondering if anyone can give me a site of nice (namebrand) hoodies that not everybody is wearing. I dont want some answer like aeropostle ambicrobian fitch, hollister, or american eagle. I'm also not the girly girly type that wants something pink with hearts all over it. I would probably NEVER wear that to school. I do like cute things though. lol. I'm a female by the way. (link)
If you're in the US:
http://shop.pacsun.com/home.jsp
If you're in Australia:
http://www.jettysurf.com.au/
Both these stores sell the brands Roxy, Billabong, Quicksilver, Hurley, Volcom and Rip Curl.
They sell mostly swimwear, however they also sell jumpers, jeans, tees , bags and other clothes and accessories. And you can buy in store, not just over the internet
Hope I helped!
xx


i have lke a 36d i think. cause i fit in those sometimes but the bras im wearing are dd. so im around there. well there a lil saggish. how can i get my boobs to be normal and perky? please help me. thankyou so much in advance. oh. and im 16 if that helps any (link)
Try wearing a bra with stronger underwire. You should also start buying more expensive (designer?) ones because they would give you more support than normal $20 ones.
You could also try going to a proper bra shop and get fitted by one of the ladies there.
Hope this helps!


I got my first Period on Jan.6
im 13 yrs old and not sexually active
I know periods are irregualr for the first couple years but its now March 1 and i haven't gotten it

Should i have gotten it by now? (link)
It all really depends on your body. This would be a tough time for it now because it's having to make alot of changes so that one day you can fall pregnant anf have children. One month I missed my period all together and I've had my perod now for about 4 years. If you really are concerned then you should talk to your doctor, mum or older sister.


where can i find black jazz dance shoes for cheap?? (link)
Try ebay


ok, i've been a server for two years but the place i have worked doesn't serve alcohol & i just recently turned 18 in september anyway. well, im quitting that job and going to another restaurant which DOES sell alcohol. i applied for several jobs, and got interviewed at one where it was a "scored interview". one of the questions was along the lines of you have a table where a customer has had multiple drinks but reaches for her keys to drive home, what should you do? i answered that i would ask another member of her table if they could drive home or if she'd like to call someone to come get her and drive her home. well i guess i didn't score high enough because i didn't get that job but i got this one instead. i start this weekend and i'd honestly like to know what i should do as a server in that situation. or in any other alcohol-related situation. if the customer seems to be getting quite drunk but keeps ordering drinks what should i do? as far as i know i have no right to deny drinks to a customer right? for anyone who has been trained to serve alcohol can you please tell me all you know? im not sure if they'll explain this to me when they train me or not but i'd like some tips from someone who has served and experienced this first-hand. thanks! (link)
If the customer tries to leave, first of all try to stall them. Ask them if they would like somethign else, such as food and water. Something simple but time comsuming. While this is going on call the person a cab to take them home or organise for the police to drive them instead. At least, of the person puts up a fight, the police can keep them in overnight and you'll know that they are in safe hands.
Hope this helps!
xx


I just wanted to know who "owns" the internet. I want to claim a domain (my name) which no one has bought or uses yet, but every time i look into it through google they say "buy this domain" or "this domain is not taken yet buy it!" who the hell has a monopoly over the internet isn't it supposed to be open territory... seriously it's equivalent to someone owning all of earth..... is there a way around it?? for me to get the website which i believe should be mine since its MY NAME?? (link)
The internet isn't really owned by anybody. There are a few major companies that have some control over it, though. Websites like Google control alot of the internet, because their rankings determine how many people visit a website.
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No one owns your domain name...including you. To legally own your name as a website, you have to buy it. I know it seems stupid, but for all you know there could be someone else in the world woth the same name as you, wondering the same thing as you. You can't both own the domain name because you both have that name~~it's just not possible. So whoever buys it first will legally own it.
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If you have anymore questions you can privately ask me.
I hope this helps, though!
xx


in alot of lady gagas songs she goes cherry cherry boom boom what does that mean it's bugging me I got to know (link)
"Cherry Cherry Boom Boom is the pseudonym of songwriter and music producer Martin Kierszenbaum. He has previously also used the following aliases for his writing and production: B. Recluse, K-Bomb, Hennesy Williams, MK Chilly Dog and Robots to Mars."

Here's a link:
http://www.cherrycherryboomboom.com


I've been acting weird lately. I searched around the internet for my weird behavior, and i found Bipolar.

i see 50% of the stuff is what i do but other stuff isn't, so i found this website, it makes you ask questions to yourself, so i did and i'm going to answer the questions here.

1. I’m a very talkative person and I can utter a lot of words in a single minute.

-Yes actually its true, i talk alot and can form a new idea in a minute.

2.I am an extremely energetic person.

-Yes

3.I’m a compulsive shopper.

-Yes i spend my money in a second, even though i don't need the thing i'm buying.

4.I don’t like to sleep.

-This is a really hard question. Well, you see, i actually love staying up and i do all the time but when i sleep, i sleep for almost 12 hours or sometimes more. So i'm not sure it's a yes or no.

5.Family and friends have been telling me that I’ve been acting strange lately. I’m becoming a war freak, a loud talker and a very angry person.

-Well no one has told me anything because i don't have alot of people as in family, but friends no. For war freak i dont think so, loud talker I AM, angry person, I'm usualy very calm but this days i've been bitchy

6.I feel sluggish most of the time.

-Not most of the time. OR maybe.

7.I want to have sex all the time.

-Yes.

8.I can’t concentrate on something for a long period of time.

-Yes, i went from a A student to a C,D and i got a F in my math exam.

9.I feel like I’m the king of the world and I can do whatever I wish to do.

-I'm not sure exactly.

10.I don’t get pleasure doing the things that I’ve always loved to do.

-Yes

11.I have trouble sleeping at night.

-Sometimes.

12.Whenever food is served on the table, I don’t feel like eating.

-Sometimes

13.I have many aches and pains from the past that just won’t go away.

-Yes, true.

14.I lack energy when it comes to having sex.

-Yes, true.

15. I lack focus.

-Yes, true.

16.People and things around me make me angry.

-Very true, i yell at my mother for no reason when she is just trying to be nice.

17.I can’t figure out why I feel disappointed and scared.

-Sometimes

18.I’d rather be alone than talk to people.

-True

19.· I feel as if my existence on earth has no meaning and nothing desirable is going to happen to me.

-Sometimes i think life is worthless.

20.I thought about murdere.

-Yes i have.

I just answered the questions, i need help.

So am I a bipolar? Do i have bipolar disorder?

And trust me if i can get help from doctor/family/friends, i would but thats not an option right now.

Thanks
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I think there is a chance that you have bipolar. The answers that you have given indicate that you are very moody and you make decisions too quickly. You say that you can't see a doctor, but I think that you should. If you let this go on for too long without medication then you could do something you will regret. Please get help soon because I've seen what happens to people who haven't seeked help soon enough, and believe me, it isn't pretty.
xx




Okay, I have this problem...Sometimes after I eat or a few hours later I like to force up my food by burping. I will get a mouth full of food sometimes I will swallow it and sometimes I will spit it out. When I do it, I feel ..good but gross at the same time. I never really thought about whether I had a real problem or not until I gave it some thought. I wouldn't call myself bulimic?...Well..I mean I am not skinny but I'm not obese either. Wouldn't you have to be skinny or do something like that on a regular basis to be classified that anyway? Well, I don't know if I should go to the doctors or not. I do this as little as maybe once a month and it's usually only a mouthful. Do you think I have a serious problem? Have you ever heard of people doing this? Do you think I should see a doctor?

(I do not binge eat either)


Any help is apprechiated

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I think that you should definentaly see a doctor. I studied eating disorders last year and I found out that you do not have to be skinny to be bulimic. Actually, pretty much all bulimic people are an average weight or higher because if they were really skinny then they would be classified as anorexic. But I still think that you shoudl see a doctor because usually bulimic people do binge eat, but you said that you don't, which is unusual.
Maybe your doctor will have the answers you need, so I sugest you go and see him.
I hope I helped and that you're ok soon!
xx


What are the best types of art pens? I mean the basic black ones for drawing? I've gone through a few brands but they've all been kinda bad.
Something smooth, not too fine. Maybe 0.5 or a .7.
Ahah, I hope this makes sense.
Thanks. (link)
I use the brand "Artline" because there are a range of different sizes (eg. 0.5) and it's a brand you can trust.
Hope this helps!


I know this is hard to find, but im trying to find sheet music, for the song Thunder by Boys like girls for VIOLIN. please help find it. =D (link)
try googling it



i heard this song on the radio, and i'm pretty sure they said the name is Can I Get That To Go? but i googled it and nothing came up that was it. im not completely sure if that was the title, but it repeated that a lot so i guess it was at least in the chorus. it was a hiphop/r&b song sung by a guy, sounded kinda like chris brown but it could have been someone else, and i just heard it on the radio so i'll assume its fairly new. does anyone know what it is? it also said something about like to see you pop it or get low or something like that. (link)
Was it this song?
It's called "Gone get it" by Chris Brown

Professionals, come on
Deputy on the track
Wheew
Chris Brown

(Verse 1)
Thick thighs, tight booty, damn girl you a beast
You're like chronic, need a dose cause I need the release
Hypnotic, thats right what you doin to me
Somebody call the doctor quick because I need therapy
Just like i'm bangin' on the stereo
Are yah listen to me?
The way she moves around and round, she was made just for me
Feel like a glove
Thats my word, i'll never get up and leave cause she the type, thats right, and give me all that I need

(Bridge)
....she know that i want it (want it)
She recognize my game she dig that im young and i run it (run it)
And i ain't leavin' less you leavin' with me,
Little mama i know you with it so lets get it and leave


(Chorus)
You gone get it, get it, (you gone get it girl) (2x)
I see that look in your eyes
I see yah lickin your lips
And i can tell what's goin down how you shakin yo hips,
[Gone Get It lyrics on http://www.metrolyrics.com]

Girl get it, get it, get it, get it, girl(2x)

(Verse 2)
See, now
Whatchu doin' to me
Got that robot type of movement as you move to the beat
Stop frontin' know you want it, girl, come go with me
And i wont tell nobody else cause its our privacy, yeah
I'm by the fire, i just saw you dang it, girl, i cant breathe
And my pulse is steady jumpin'
Can you feel how i need
How i feel, so unreal, damn it chu killin me
Simon says turn around and just move your body

(Bridge)
....she know that i want it (want it)
She recognize my game she dig that im young and i run it (run it)
And i ain't leavin' less you leavin' with me,
Little mama i know you with it so lets get it and leave


(Chorus)
You gone get it, get it, (you gone get it girl) (2x)
I see that look in your eyes
I see yah lickin your lips
And i can tell what's goin down how you shakin yo hips,
Girl get it, get it, get it, get it, girl(2x)


I've been on my high school dance team for 4 years now. We practice 5 days a week for 2 and half hours... therefore i'm in pretty good shape and i get pleanty of exercise. It's year round too. I recently started Birth Control about 4 months ago, my doctor said it's normal to gain about 5 pounds being on the pill but i've gained 8 in the past 4 months. I'm starting to not be able to fit in my jeans. I need to lose weight and i don't know how. I get pleanty of exercise and i can't just stop eating, but i don't know how to maintain a healthy diet either. any suggestions? (link)
If you are really worried about the extra weight you have been putting on, and you think it is caused by the pill, then you shoudl definentaly go to the doctors to see what is causing it and if there is something different you can take/use instead of the pill.


my skin is ruining my life! i'm really like.. i don't know what the word for it is.. but i overthink everything. something about mind control? well, my skin never used to be this bad, until i started stressing about it so much. i'm constantly worrying about it and doing everything i can to make it better, but i get more and more breakouts everyday. i drink a lot of water, eat healthy, use good face washes, only wash it about twice a day, use lotion and good moisturizes, so don't tell me anything is wrong with my routine. it's all in my head. i just don't know how to just let it be. ugh :/ :/ :/ sometimes i just stay home when i get invited somewhere, because my skin is so bad. bleh! (link)
If your skin is really such an issue now, then maybe you should see a doctor about it. My aunty had bad breakouts like this, and even though she used all the right washes and soaps and toners and mousterizers and stuff, she couldn;t stop the breakouts. So when she went to see a doctor, they prescibed some medicaion and almost instantly her face cleared up again.
If you dont want to take medication, you can lways try changing your face washes to something stronger and natural.


got any good pump up (up beat) music that gets you excited for say if you were going to a sporting event? I like ones like kevin rudolpher, letit rock and the veronicas, untouched.
thankss! (link)
"Hook me Up" by The Veronicas
"Me Against the Music" by Britney Spears feat. Madonna
"Toxic" by Britney Spears
"Hey Ya" by Outcast
"Great DJ" by The Ting Tings
"Get the Party Started" by Pink
"Get Shakey" by The Ian Carey Project
"Just Dance" by Lady Gaga
"Poker Face" by Lady Gaga
"Circus" by Britney Spears
"Pump It" by The Black Eyed Peas
"Popular" by The Veronicas
"Let It Rock" by Kevin Rudolf
"Untouched" by The Veronicas
"Aint no Other Man" by Christina Aguilera
"My People" by The Presets
"Talk Like That" by The Presets
"Boys in Love" by The Presets
"Live Your Life" by T.I ft. Rihanna
"Like It Loud" by Cassie Davis
"Hot N Cold" by Katy Perry
"My Life Would Suck Without You" by Kelly Clarkson
"Single Ladies (Put a Ring on it)" by Beyonce
"Dance Wiv Me" by Dizee Rascal
"I don't Care" by Fallout Boy
"See you Again" by Miley Cyrus
"Sex on Fire" by The Kings of Leon
"Kansas City" by Sneaky Sound System
"UFO" by Sneaky Sound System
"I love it" by Sneaky Sound System
"Pictures" by Sneaky Sound System
"Don't Cha" by The Pussycat Dolls
"SOS" by Rihanna
"Just a Song about Ping Pong" by Operator Please
"Get What you Want" by Operator Please
"Leave it Alone" by Operator Please
"Don't Stop the Music" by Rihanna
"Peice of Me" by Britney Spears
"Take me on the Floor" by The Veronicas
"Womanizer" by Britney Spears
"Circus" by Britney Spears
"That's not my Name" by The Ting Tings
"London Bridge" by Fergie
"Here I Come" by Fergie

That's all I can think of, so I hope I helped.
If you need some more songs just ask me and I'll see what else I can come up with!
Michelle xx


which is better, skin id or proactive? i dont have severe acne but it definately is there and i have normal to oily skin. (link)
Well different people react to different chemicals differentaly.
My friend said that when she used Proactive she felt as if she was covering her face in paint stripper. But she also said that whe her sister used Proactive she had no troubles with it at all.
Personally, I don't trust any of those advertised ones because the pictures I've seen of what can happen to your skin are horrendous, so I generally stick to Nivea Young as I am 14 and other natural skin creams without many chemicals.
Maybe you should sample or but a smaller bottle of both Skin id and Proactive to see which one works best with your skin before deciding on one.


so i know this is weird but bare with me lol. I was dared to have someone pee in my mouth and i said no, that's def not healthy. and then someone else said it was fine and i was just being a wimp. But if peeing is like the release of all of those toxins then drinking it would be bad for you right? so what im wondering is if swallowing pee is actually bad for you besides just being gross. (link)
Under no circumstances should you drink someone else pee. It is very unhealthy and as you said peeing is how you release the toxins inside your body. Even drinking your own pee can be harmful too so if someone ever dares you to drink your pee or someone elses pee then definentaly say no because doing that can lead to diseases later on in life.
Oh and pee probably doesn't taste very nice either.


Okay when I was a sophomore I was dating this girl that I'd been with for a long time. I think around 3 years. I met this girl named Daisy. Well I never cheated on Lorri or even thought about it. But I really grew fond of Daisy and we became really great friends. Today I dug out an old notebook me and Daisy kept together and I noticed she liked me back then but now she is dating this guy she's been with for two years and I know I still care about her a lot but when I saw her today and hugged her I couldn't tell her how I felt because I felt guilty. I don't want to cause a problem with our friendship or her relationship...what am I supposed to do? (link)
I think you should just ask Daisy straight out how she feels about you, and tell her you found the notebook. Don't say how you feel before she says how she does in case she has moved on for good, and you don't want to put your friendship in danger. If she says she still does have feeling for you then tell her how you feel because you know that she feels the same way and loves you back. But if she says that she has moved on and loves the guy she is with now then just leave it at that. If she asks why you asked then just tell her you were curious.
If she says she doesn't feel anything anymore and you can't seem to move on like her than you can always try to make her feel that way again. Be extra nice to her and compliment her. Even the littlest things can really count. Take some lessons from Edward Cullen from Twilight and try to show her that you care more for her than she really knows. Just be there for her and see what happens. Don't feel guilty anymore because that will make you seem nervous in front of her and after all you had no idea that she felt this way about you back then and she should've told you how she felt.


I'm really pale and I have dark hair and there is a dance coming up. I'm not allowed to go to a tanning bed or anything, which is probably for my benefit but what color dress would make me not look so pale? Thanks! (link)
I think you should go for an Orange, Brown, Gray, Cream, Tan, Yellow, or Pink dress.
Dark or Bold colours like Black or Red may make your skin look paler than it already is as they stand out on your skin.
Hope I helped!
Michelle xx


Aim: How impurites affect boiling point of a liquid.

problem: at a campsite, a group of student campers discovered that the three large containers of clear liquids were labelled. they knew that one of the liquids was distilled water, the other Salt solution and the third alcohol. the campers needed salt solution to cook their peas. how can they find out which one of the containers has salt solution without tasting the liquids?

among their cooking utensils they have pots and pans. their 'make-shift' laboratory equipment including matches and thermometer.

my question whats the first step i do to start this SBA? i desperatley need somebody's help. (link)
I had to do this in science too.
Add some lemon juice to all the ingredients and the salt should turn into a muchy sort of substance. If you add lemon juice to the water the water will just stay water, but I'm not sure what will happen to the alchahol because we did not use alchahol in our experiment.
Hope I helped!
Michelle xx




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