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what should i do.....(help plz)
well... me and this close freind of mine whenever we hang out we get really close and this one time we were at a party and watching a movie in the dark and he was like trying to lift my shirt and was tracing the line of my shorts ( low rise shorts) and like almost unbuttoning my shorts and i feel really uncomfortble like i really like him but im not sure if i want to go that far and im not sure even if he wants to so im kinda confused and im really shy like about showing my body to any guys but hes the one i would feel most comfortable around if i had to... and another question is it a turn on or a turn off to have hair (down there ) haha please help =/
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most guys like it smelling good and for it to be completely shaved and smooth.
and if you're not comfortable doing something with a guy, that's perfectly ok. stick to your gut feeling. if you really are comfortable with the guy, you should be able to tell that he made you a little uneasy and that you're not really ready to take your friendship to the next level.
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Most important...If you feel uncomfortable,
ask him to stop. Make it very clear to him
you aren't ready for that yet. If you let
him continue he will get the message that
you are ok with it and will push it a little
further every time. Never doubt he wants to.
All guys "want to".
Hair is your preference. I don't think
guys really care one way or another.
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If he is skipping to sex right away he more than likely only wants sex from you or he is confused on what he should do. You sound like a girl who needs a commitment from a guy and that is what you should ask for. I agree that you are not ready if you are asking and believe me have sex with a person you love and loves you back is probably the best thing in the world. If you don't want to regret anything you should wait until you know you are in love. I know that is not right for everyone but I think many people regret having sex with a person they didn't love.
Ask him for a commitment and then work on getting intimate. You will never get those butterflies in the stomach back if you go straight for sex. cherish the romance before you give everything to him. You will be happier in the end.
hope I helped
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Hi,
I think that if you have to ask yourself that question, you are clearly not ready to move on to the next step. Take some time and get to know him a little better on that level.
It's normal to feel shy about your body. Open up the lines of communication and tell him that although you like him a lot, you are not quite ready to go any further. If he cares about you, he'll understand.
I think that having hair down there is a personal choice. Try both ways out and see which one you prefer. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
Edidmarie
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