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HE IS DRIVING ME NUTS!!!!
him 17 me 15
ok so for about a month now me and one of my best guy friends have been being involved....but not dateing....well for like 3 weeks now people have been bugging me about dateing him but he told me he dont want me to ask him out he will ask me out and so this keeps going on...well today we were hanging out with our other frineds and they started asking if we were dateing and he wouldnt say anyhting and I said no and he just sat there and kissed me...It's been driving me nuts because everyone keeps buging me about i and not him and he dont get it...should I just give up on the whole thing with him since I have been waiteing a month or should I keep going forth and being annoyed untill he asks...if he ever does
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He may like you a lot but could just be really shy. He also may be afraid that he is going to mess things up if you two start dating. I don't think that he isn't interested, but maybe he has anxiety. Be careful though because he may be weighing his options with another girl. The only way to know for sure is to talk to him about it. If after you have the conversation you are unhappy with the response you get, keep your options open and don't focus on him. You could consider dating someone else or whatever you choose. After talking to him you should get a better feel for where his head is with all of this. If you don't feel much promise, see other guys unless and until he changes your mind.
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They're bothering you for two reasons. Their lives are boring and he's likely put them there to feel things out. He's gutless and looking for you to make the final move that he won't.
If these people are bothering you just say "I appreciate your friendship but my private life/business isn't up for discussion." They won't bother you if you are assertive. You could also call it a "dead issue." They want a reaction or he does from you. Don't give it to them.
Next speak with this guy and tell him you're beginning to get pissed off over people asking and him not doing anything. Tell him to ask you out and make it official or scram. he's not handling things maturely so you being 17 might want to aim higher or if you like him give him the ultimatum to put up or shut up.
Sometime's a girl has to do what a girl has to do to get her point across. Manners only gets you so far in certain situations. Let the gloves come off here if need be. Don't behave like a mouse.
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