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what to talk about
im 18 years old. so my problem is, i feel like i never know how to keep a conversation going! me and this guy always text, and first its the usualy, hey, whats up, what are you doing, oh thats cool. and all that boring stuff. well then usually he will say something and i will answer and sometimes he makes it hard to talk. because he will be like "oh yeah haha" and i'm just like okay well what do i say now? so i randomly start texting things and i feel like im a weirdo and just go from one thing to another. i want to keep talking to him, so i feel like i should try to keep his attention you know? sometimes we talk about sex, even though we have not had sex but it's just playful things like that. what are some cute, naughty or just interesting things i can say to make him think im not boring!
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It's pretty sad to say but men love themselves. You'll keep him talking by talking about the things that he likes. Sometimes ask him what he'd like to talk about. Never ask him about his feelings. If you run out of things to say then don't worry about it we all do. My suggestion would be to right down a bunch of questions. Maybe questions about what you don't know about him and stuff like that and put it in a hat and when you run out of things to say then pull a question out of the hat and try to keep the conversation going based on the question. These questions might seem a little weird but if you slipped them in a couple times a week it would give you something new to talk about. www.whichisworse.com then you'll learn new stuff about him too.
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