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should we do it, enough time?
hi! 18 f
so i was planning on having sex this weekend with this guy. i'm a virgin. don't preach me on making sure it's the right guy blah blah. i just would appreciate if you could answer my question! so we didn't know where we were going to do it. both our parents are usually home and so he was like hopefully one of them goes out. well today my mom was talking about going to visit my grandma in the nursing home. i'm guessing my dad would go too? i'm not sure what time they're planning on going but the thing i worry about is that they are going to go around 5, and we weren't planning on hanging out until around 7 or 8 because i will be with my best friend at her house for a while. my parents usually stay an hour and a half max when they visit her. my brother is 22 years old and is moved out but usually comes over after work to come see my dog and stuff so i would also be scared he would come too. i personally didn't want to do it at my house, in my bed because what if i bled, and i would feel weird sleeping in my sheets afterwards but it's better than doing it in a car or something. i don't know how to wash my sheets haha sadly my mom still does my laundry and everything! if my parents did go around 7 though, and stayed an hour and a half would that be enough time for us? i wouldn't want to rush it, i'll probably be a baby and make him go SLOW because it's going to hurt but i would also always be worried my parents are going to be coming home any minute, you know? i dont know what do you think. people have said rent a hotel, well i don't have the money and either does he. also where would we put the condom afterwards i would be too paranoid putting it in ANY trash in my house, my mom takes out the trash. so where do people usually put it? well sorry so many questions but thank you!
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The time isn't right. Wait until you can
do it without the added stress of someone
walking in on you. Neither of you will have
a good time and the chance of getting
caught is much to great.
Should you decide to go ahead with it, DO
NOT flush the condom down the toilet. It
may cause the toilet to back up and then
you are caught that way. Find an empty
can or box in the trash and throw it in
there.
My advice though is to wait for a better
time. Getting caught will probably end
the relationship, and just isn't worth it.
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hey there :]
k, so this sounds familier to my first time, lol.
but i would really advise you that if you feel like yu'll be worried the whole time, to do it somewhere else. cause you'll be thinking about how worried you are and its gnas interfier in everything!
some ideas :
maybe go to the beach late at night. that would be romantic. or see if you can do it at his house.. or a friends? lol. try something like that.
and for the whole condom thing, just wrap it in a paper towel. she wont see it.
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OK, it wouldn't be a brilliant thing to have sex while they are gone by about 7, because if their only staying about an hour and a half MAX, than it is true that they could come in any moment. The way your making it sound is like you want your "first time" to be a quickie. Which doesn't sound like a reasonable first time to me. You should definitely wait for more opportunities either at his house or yours to do this. This plan that you have is too risky. I doubt that your brother would come 7-8:30 though unless he has a key to the house. As far as where to put the condom goes, you can flush it down the toilet which is the simplest thing to do, or you can just make sure that it is all the way at the bottom of the trash so your mom doesn't see.
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