i'm a virgin. i am 17 years old. the past two weeks i've been trying to loosen myself up for when im ready to have sex. in the bath i can do two fingers, easily three fingers well it's actually not THAT bad. so when i do end up having sex, i know it will still hurt but by being able to put two, sometimes three fingers does that necessarily mean it's not going to hurt as bad?
The pain comes from your hymen being
broken. If you have one it may hurt.
Many girls have had theirs broken
already, sometimes by exploring
fingers. Thats where the pain comes
in. Vagina's were made to accommodate
a penis. Use a lubricant the first
time you have sex and don't worry
about the need to "stretch" anything. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
josephballard10 answered Friday November 7 2008, 5:11 am: No, just because you can masturbate with 2 fingers and even three doesn't mean it's not going to hurt. Yeah, you may loosen yourself up "a little bit" but there is a huge difference between a guy's penis and your fingers [ josephballard10's advice column | Ask josephballard10 A Question ]
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