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random hook up..im worried.
i went to this party last night and made out with 3 guys and gave one a handy and some stuff..and i was drinking a little. i cant remember exactly what i did with the one guy, but i kept worrying i had sex with him. im a virgin, and last night was my first time doing anything besides kissing.
well pretty much it was a hump and dump, and he got pissed at me for some reason and all this sh!t. it made me feel horrible. but anyways, im worried something happened..like i would remember if i had sex or he fingered me right? it hurt a little down there, but not too bad. and i remember both guys with there hands there, they were like both laying next to me. and then when i stood up my pants were undone.
then, this morning i find out this guys basically a man whore, and i feel like such a slut. all his friends are like your gonna get some gross disease! ahahah. and no not funny..is it possible i could catch something from making out or hand job i dont even knoww! haha help! =]
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Alright well first if you think you only drank a little than you probley would remember doing stuff. Just in case go to a gyno and ask her (you should probley get a female one for this kind of stuff) to give you a little looksie. She will be able to tell you if anything penetrated there. As for the slut thing...we all have our days when were a little more naughty that nice. You'll get over it.
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If you only drank a little bit you would remember if someone had sex with you and that would be called rape if they did. the would have taken advantage of you while you were under the influence. it may be sore from them rubbing or touching you down there since you are still a virgin. you can't catch anything from a HJ but you can get a cold sore from kissing. which is very treatable.
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I'm going to calm you down and just let you know that, no, the worse you can get from kissing is a Cole Sore. Which is treatable. And hand-jobs, no you cannot.
As far as drinking "a little" than YES you would be able to remember if you had sex or not. But as far as admitting to yourself that you did drink kind of hard that night, than NO you wouldn't be able to remember most likely. You said that when you woke up that it was hurting "down there", well that could have come from them fingering you. Or unexpectedly, you might have had sex with them. It would really help if you could remember when you fell asleep to determine if they did rape you or not. If you fell asleep while they were still in the room than most likely YES. If you fell asleep while they were gone, than most likely NO. What I'm trying to get at is I can't determine if they did it to you or not, but what I am going to tell you is that you need to go down to an anonymous clinic and get tested immediately. And for future reference, dont let it happen again.
Please leave me feedback on my answer, thankyou :)
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it may be possible to catch something if you touched your mouth with your hand after a hand job or touched your lower area. i think it's a pretty slim chance though.
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