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not feeling pleasure ..
i'm a virgin, 18 years old, female
i've only made out with three guys before, kissed two. i don't really care what people think about me. i mean yes, its embarassing when people find out but i'm not ashamed of it. anyways lately i've been fingering myself, like in the bath tub or shower and i've been doing it for about a week and a half and i feel no pleasure from it. i do one finger, and when i put it inside my vagina all i feel is like a squishy feeling. i can do two, but that does nothing either. three, i feel like i'm forcing it and well its uncomfortable obviously because my vagina is still tight. if a boy were to do this to me, would i still feel the same or would i get a different feeling? i've heard you have to stimulate your clit, but i'm just wondering! i'm trying to loosen myself up for WHEN I'M READY to become sexual with someone. also when a boy does it, is it going to hurt? or will it feel the same as when i do it. i know it depends on how many fingers but what do you guys think is the right amount? thanks!
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i no what you mean i guess it depends on the person. i personally dont really like getting fingered i just dont like how it feels i dont think it feels great, but some people do like it i guess it depends if the guy who is doing it to you knows what he is doing
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2 fingers is enough if your a virin "believe me". Now to answer your question, yes, it will feel greater when a guy does it to you instead of yourself because when a guy does it, (one that your attracted to) your vagina releases horomones, and therefore you feel better. But, seeing as how your a virgin and it's still "tight". If a guy does it, yes, it will feel better, but also, yes, it will hurt and feel uncomfortable. Losing your virginity does hurt "a lot" because your still "tight" but, after you do it once, and as it loosens sex feels a lot easier and way more arousing & feels much better because your vagina is now used to it and is loose. It will hurt, your first time, but it's worth it in case you want to do it a second time with a guy.
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