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so my friend 'sue' is dating a boy named 'kyle'.
they've dated before but he cheated on her.
theyre now back together.
he makes her so happy.
and yeah im happy for her and stuff.
butt when i walk up to them in the halls she looks at me like im stupid/annoying? its confusing.
my friend 'josh' came up to me and started talking to me...
this is how it went
josh:wow. sues become a real bitch ever since her and kyle got back together.
me: yeah shes changed alot ever since he came back in the picture.
it got out to her.
and she asked me if i really said that.
i told her yes.
and shes taken it way out of proportion
we yelled at eachother ALOT.
and now were not talking.
me her and some friends were all suppose to hang out tomorow for halloween but that doesnt look like its gonna happen anymore.
welll anyhelp on what i should do?
shes blaming me for hating her boyfriend.
and being jelous.
and shes been a total bch to me.
annnd i made a promise to her about never cutting myself again.
and now she said she doesnt care if i do it or not. idunno
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she isnt a friend and cutting your self thats a good topic for later on ..but when he dumps her if hes that type of guy she will go back to you dont worry
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Ask he if you can talk to her (don't yell) and if says no tell her well when you ready to talk to me ill be waiting. (show that you care for her as a friend by saying that)
tell her you want to say something and ask her to listen before saying anything.
when she is ready to talk tell her that you didn't call her a Btch that you were just saying she has changed a lot since the two of them got back together. Tell her I like your boyfriend because he makes you so happy but i get worried that he is going to hurt you again. When we are at school and I walk up to you it seems that you look at me like im stupid or annoying or something.
let her know you dont want to fight or end a friendship over something like this or over anything.
good luck.
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She HAS become a real bitch lately hasn't she now?
She doesn't care if you cut or not now? What a scummy, evil little no-good twirp. You ought to have slapped her across the face.
Well, no, of course you shouldn't have slapped her, but I can't express strongly enough how much this is NOT YOUR FAULT AND YOU CANNOT GO ABOUT FEELING AWFUL BECAUSE YOUR 'FRIEND' IS A SELF-ABSORBED EVIL CHILD.
Continue with the not talking.
It might be a good idea to apologize for hurting her feelings and for yelling at her after things have calmed down. (We never want to hurt anyone's feelings and shouting matches are always BOTH people's fault). So, it would be mature and proper of your for apologizing for those two things, but don't go any further then that and even if you two are civil and polite to one another in the future, don't forget this incident. This girl is NOT a friend. She is a drama-love monster who can only seem to think of herself.
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