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after sex..


Question Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 8:42 pm

17/f
what are you suppose to do after sex? i know it might sound weird asking but i just dont know. so you have sex and when your done what do you do? just get dressed? and just be like okay well it's done...? i know it's different for many people but i was just wondering what people do after they're done having sex with their boy!! also is it going to hurt AFTER having sex, and if so how long will that pain last? thanks!!

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Lizard-Girl answered Thursday October 30 2008, 5:55 pm:
Well their is a tone of things you can do. You can cuddle, get dressed, ect.. Personally what i like is starting by watching a movie and do it while the movie is going then once its over continue watching the movie and cuddle.
Also Yes it can hurt you if your a virgin, a hint get your Bf to finger you a bit stretching you this is what my Bf did and i had no pain the first time but it did kinda hurt when he started to stretch me but i was too into it to really feel it, their may also be some blood so dont freak that gust means you've poped your cherry its natural. The pain can vary gust don't try to ride a bike for a few weeks after words lol.


Hope this helps you ;)
L-G

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Hustle_Rose answered Wednesday October 29 2008, 12:53 am:
Personally, my boyfriend and I normally lay in bed for a bit and snuggle, then get up and have a shower together. Afterwards we curl back up in bed all warm and wet, pop in a movie and just chill out and enjoy eachothers bodies for a while. ^^ It's nice.
But it really does depend on your relationship. Personally, I'm not a fan of clothes. I'll stay naked pretty much until I have to leave. But if you aren't as comfortable, or maybe don't have a very intimate relationship with your partner, then you might just get dressed and continue with your day. Every couple is different.
As for the pain thing, that is definately unique to every woman. Personally, I was never sore or uncomfortable after having sex. There was a stinging pain when he entered me and for a while during, and then it just kind of faded away into pleasure. Even now it still hurts a little when we start, but it's a good hurt, if that makes any sense. However, I have friends who I know have never experienced any pain from sex, including when losing their virginity. Others have complained about being sore afterwards. It really just depends on your body.

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ohsnapitstaylor answered Tuesday October 28 2008, 9:12 pm:
What you and your partner do after sexual intercourse definatly depends on the relationship you two share.

An actual relationship with someone you are close with and feel passion being passionate with, you would normally cuddle and just lay with each other.

One night stand? I've never really had a one night stand including sexual intercourse, but I have hooked up with someone for just one night. Normally afterwards, I try to keep the mood positive. Don't be awkward, just joke around or keep conversation, etc.



The first time after you have sex you may be a little sore. After that, you still feel a little bit sore but normally not as much..

If you ever have ANY question reguarding sexual intercourse or anything involving it, just let me know :)

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yourrtrustyhelpline answered Tuesday October 28 2008, 9:09 pm:
well it depends on how much time you have after. if you have a lot of time, or are in the situation, you just sleep for a while. if you don't have that much time left, like you needa go home soon or something, usually you'll just get dressed and talk about stuff and just chill or something. but it really depends from person to person. and usually you will be sore for atleast a day or two after your first time.

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jeanine278972 answered Tuesday October 28 2008, 9:08 pm:
Well, first off. It does depend on the people. Some will cuddle up and go to sleep. My boyfriend and I like to cuddle for a while and then i go home. Sometimes you just get dressed and its over. It really does depend solely on the situation.
As for does it hurt. It does. Especially at first. It also depends on your body as to how long and how much it hurts. It's something most people get over or get used to. It can be really bad at times and others its not painful at all.

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