Hi i have a problem them i know is not normal but i dont know what to do about it when i make out with my GF i get a boner and then orgasm a real short time later. dose anyone else have this problem. how can i stop this? were both 16.
Kendra_Berri answered Friday October 24 2008, 6:46 pm: This is likely happening because you're young and inexperienced. Lots of teenage boys go through this. The best thing you can do in this situation is to masturbate before you see her.
Also, when you masturbate stop yourself before ejaculation and wait until you can resume without ejaculating yet. Repeat this a few times. This will train you to pace yourself, take your time and delay your orgasm.
Also, when you're making out with your girlfriend and you feel like you're getting too excited, stop for a bit and calm down. I don't know if you two are into oral sex together or not or if you do manual stimulation, but if so this would be the perfect time to focus on her sexual enjoyment. You'll be so busy learning how to give her an orgasm, you likely won't be on the verge of having one yourself. [ Kendra_Berri's advice column | Ask Kendra_Berri A Question ]
pseudophun answered Friday October 24 2008, 2:20 pm: The easiest way to "gain control" is to masturbate more. Sounds whack, I know, but think about it, if you're empty it can't happen.
An exboyfriend of mine had a similar problem. He solved it this way, however the entire thing stopped even being a possibility when when he lost his virginity. [ pseudophun's advice column | Ask pseudophun A Question ]
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