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im i addicted to sex
f/15
everytime my parents leave the house..I watch porn and masterbate...
i watch hbo and wait for the sex scenes then i masterbate to thoses...i masterbate all the time...do i have a problem...i havent had a boyfriend in a while could that be the problem..i havent been touched for a while!!like 2 years..what is my problem..should i stop will this affect me when i have sex for the first time..will it make having an orgasim harder???
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Masturbating is normal, honestly I had the same problems when I was about 13 or 14. I think you do it so much because you haven't been touched for a while. There's no need to stop. I doubt it will effect your first time because when I first started doing sexual things I was getting fingered for about half a year before I had sex and before I was getting fingered I masturbated and it didn't mess up my first time. Usually girls don't have an orgasm their first time having sex, but then again everyone is different. Continue doing what you like to do there's nothing wrong with it!
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I'm not a sex expert but I am in a human sexuality class and we are thought that, that is very normal.
And don't listen to that other person about how you shouldn't watch porn because the stars are not smart, just because you watch porn doesn't mean you will become a porn star.
And masterbating right now will not effect you having sex later or ever. I've read that it acutally makes it easier to have an orgasim during sex because you are more intone with your body and your likes and dislikes.
And what do you mean by all the time, like once or twice a day or ten times? Cause if it is more than once or twice I would say start cutting back because it shouldn't interfere with your life, such as not doing homework or hanging out with friends.
If you have anymore questions feel free to drop me a line.
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Someone your age should not be watching pornographic movies. They are meant for adults only. They are not an accurate representation of what sex is like nor of healthy relationships. Quite often the performers are broken people, possibly molested in the past and have no education.
Not all but most. There is also drug addiction and though they test people STDs and even AIDS. There's nothing glamorous about it. If you really want to know about sex and sexuality find an age appropriate reference book and ask your parents or health teachers questions.
There isn't anything wrong with masturbation unless its all you ever want to do or care about. Right now, it's too much. You need to go outside be active, do sports, go to the movies and find other productive things to do with your time. Really! Any time you want to do it go find something else instead.
You can bet your parents know or will find out about the adult TV and videos. What will they think? Best to stop watching altogether. Masturbation won't affect sex as it's different. But yes, find a hobby as it should not have that much power on your life.
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