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sex changes everything
what do people mean when they sex changes everything?
does it normally change in a bad or a good way?
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I think it really depends on the relationship. When people say, sex changes everything, It can go either way. If you have sex with someone you are dating and really care for, then it can change for the better. It can bring two people closer. My boyfriend, he says he will wait until i'm ready, he says he wants it to be perfect, he says that for him, having sex (making love) is like giving someone all you have. Giving someone everything you could possible give, mentally, physically, emotionally. etc. Sadly it could also change for the worse. If you "hook up" with someone, it could get ackward. Or if someone goes wrong with a hook up, then that could be very bad. But if something goes wrong, and you had sex with someone you care about or even love, then they would help you through it. I hope that helped.
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In regards to life, it changes what you pursue and how you act in relationships. Virgins date to kiss and be with someone, people who have had sex are looking for potential sex partners in addition to everything else.
In a relationship, usually sex is the beginning of a period where the relationship doesnt grow a whole lot. When a couple is involved having sex at the beginning of the relationship, being around each other becomes a prelude to sex rather than getting to know each other. Plus, you're too into each other and into sex to notice or care about each other's flaws.
As sex becomes more "normal" in the relationship and isnt new and exciting, you start seeing and having to deal with and adapt to each other's flaws and personal quirks.
Thing is, if sex comes into the relationship too early, often the relationship becomes about sex before it becomes about anything else, so when the "honeymoon phase" ends there isnt much left to base a relationship on.
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I think that it really depends on the two people that are in the relationship. For example, I was in a relationship with a boy for 3 years and we did have sex, in the end all it really did was make it very difficult for him to let go. It also made me second guess him and think that all he wanted was sex.
Now another, the boy I am currently with, we have been together a year, we had sex. I think that it has made our relationship stronger in so many ways. If you really care about someone and know that you want to be with them, then sex can be a great step for you too take together, but only if you are both ready.
You have decide how you feel about the person and how you think you will feel after you let them in to the most private part of your life.
Hope I helped.
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It changes how you look at the world, it changes the dynamics of your relationship, it changes how you walk, talk, and how you think.
Lots of good changes, a few uncomfortable changes, maybe even some bad changes.
If it's with the right person, a lot of good changes will happen.
cheers,
stargirl
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Well when you have sex with a person, a lot of stuff can change in your relationship. Some of its good some bad. You chemically bond with the person you have sex with, which means your closer, but that can be bad if you break up. You also have to worry about that may be the only thing you and your other person may do. You just have to be SUPER careful
Good luck
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