hey im meaghan, better known by friends as meg or premo. i love giving advice, when i can anyway. i am adicted to texting and animals and writing, like poems and stories. i really want to be either a zoologist or a vet, kinda down the middle with that. i am loud annoying and love wolves. music is my life and if ya have a personal ? u want to ask me just email me thanks!
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what do people mean when they sex changes everything?
does it normally change in a bad or a good way?
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Well when you have sex with a person, a lot of stuff can change in your relationship. Some of its good some bad. You chemically bond with the person you have sex with, which means your closer, but that can be bad if you break up. You also have to worry about that may be the only thing you and your other person may do. You just have to be SUPER careful
Good luck
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man i hate lil mama too!
i love the boogie bots!
JOESAR IS HOOOTTT!!!!
:D (link)
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lol God lil mama has no idea what shes talkin bout on ABDC does she? :D
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what part of last week's episode was when lil mama was talkin crap about boogie bots? i dont think it was during their judging time in their performance?
was it when she was talking about super crew's judging time? (link)
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yeah she said during the super crew performance that "the boogie bots just dont excite me" or somethin like that, personally i think shes an idiot to say that, boogie bots kick butt! super crew, i think, sucks. sorry if your a fan but i hate them
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I am 15 years old and I am from Guam... English is not my first spoken language... But I will try to use proper english in as much ways as I was taught... Okay so one of my bestfriends is a guy and we are jus so close that his friendship means more to me than anything else... The problem is... We've gotten so much closer over the years that we have been friends for... We've been friends for 9 and a half years... I started growing feelings for this guy and his friend says that he feels the same way... I want to go out with him but then I don't want to put a strain on our friendship... I know that usually when people break up their friendship doesn't always survive... And I wouldn't want that to happen... I don't know what to do about this situation... Please help me... Thank you... (link)
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Im going to disagree with those first 2 advisors too. You'll never know what will happen if you two date. If you both really like each other, heres my only major advice: GO FOR IT! Some exes i know are still really good friends but you will never know if you dont give it a shot. Think about this: when your older and single or even dating another guy, you dont want to be sitting there saying "I wonder what would have happened IF i had just dated him" especially if hes with someone else then and you still have feelings for him. Look youre the same age as me, and so I may not have as much experience as those other advisors, but already I've seen the what if factor with some stuff i could have done/did before. You dont want to spend a bunch of your life wondering "what if i had just done this?". Just give it a chance.
o and great job with the english, you speak better than a lot of people actually born here!
Good luck and tell me if this helps!
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i love my boyfrined and we have been together for awhile but he is moving soon and i wont be able to see him after he moves so we talked about it and he agreed that we couldnt be together after he moved. we are both virgins and he told me he wanted me to be the one he lost it to. like im ok with it but i dont know if it would just make the break up harder or if it would be the same i just dont want to do something i might regret because i got to attached and cant let him go.....HELP
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Look if you love each other, you should try and make the long distance thing work. if you really love each other, distance should make no difference. make time to email, call, or visit each other, just don't give up on him and you if you really love each other. but if you can't make it work don't have sex with him! It makes your breakup harder, because you'll have an emotional and chemical bond with him. If you have sex with him, you'll be more attached to him and it makes everything harder for both of you.
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I am a 16 year old female girl.
Well, it all starts about a year ago. I developed feelings for a guy. He was everything I had ever wanted in a guy. As well as he was my dream guy, he was also a friend of mine. My otherfriend somehow decided that she was entitled to him, and went after him. For about 7 months I hadn't talked to either of them, because I hadn't seen them and the awkwardness of the situation. Then out of the blue, he contacted me. He asked me if I had ever yelled at her, called her names, or harassed her. I was shocked. I replied "No...why would you ask that? Does that even SOUND like me?" Apparently my ex-friend had lied about me to make me sound bad so that she would win him over. He also had found out that she lied about nearly everything else in her life. What a great relationship, eh? He was furious, and I was hurt. She apologized later in an e-mail, and I soon found out she only lied to make me sound horrible because she was afraid I would steal him from her. Of course, I never would have done that because I had been over him for a very long time.
Well, this guy friend of mine can never let things go. He hates when people lie to him, and just forgiving her off the bat (as I did )wasn't an option. I felt bad for him, and I was still a little annoyed at her. He somehow convinced me to cheat with him in order to get back at her and make her feel horrible, so I gave him oral sex.I might add that it was the first time I'd ever done that. I realize that at the moment, it was a horrible decision and I was very stupid to let him talk me into it. However,in the process, a flood of the old feelings I had came back. Within seconds, the feelings I had of strictly friendship toward him turned into something else completely. I talked to him later, and he said to me "Oh my god...why did I do that? I was trying to make my girlfriend feel horrible, but I only succeeded in making myself feel that way." I knew that we had no real relationship besides friends, but it then truly hit me. I had been used. Since, I have not been able to sleep much. I toss and turn at night. I want to confront him and tell him I don't appreciate being used like that, but I don't know how. I don't even know if it's better not to confront him. I'm very attracted to him, and want to repeat what we did the other day, but it was a one time thing. I still feel used.
These old feelings of like/lust/betrayal have started to come up, while I have this other guy that I am interested in, and he is interested in me. We enjoy all the same things, and we just get along great. There is definitely something between us. It's just pure chemistry. So currently I have feelings of lust toward my friend, while I'm confused about my feelings toward the guy I really do like.
I need advice. input. what can i do to make things right? (link)
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ok like Healer said, forget the first guy. hes used you and hes not worth your time. you may need to mention what happened with your friend. yeah, she will be mad, but its better than the chance he'll tell her and make everything seem like your fault. at least if you tell her, she has your input and can't say you made it up if you fessed up.
now to how you feel about her boyfriend: you liked him before, you will probably alawys care a little for him, especially after having any sort of sex with him. you have a physical connection with him, but you have a better emotional connection with the other guy. and look, if a guy has oral sex with you to make his girlfriend jealous, he probably aint a good friend to have. stay away from him at all costs. time heals emotional wounds best. you said you forgot about those feelings before after you just stayed away from him. stick with the other guy that you really like and you should soon forget all about your friends bf
good luck!!
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ok, so im 15/f and im struggling with acne. Its been not so bad but now its getting worse and worse every day. Any advice on getting it to stop?
Oh, and no its not because of my period. haha.
thanks !
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Hey, im going through the same problem. these hormones are a real pain in the butt. really the most you can do is just wash your face every night and morning, especially when you've been wearing makeup, cause it clogs up your pores like crazy.
Good luck!
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My best friend has been dating "THE prize catch" guy from her university and she was really happy about it when she got him. She still talks about how all the girls wanted him and such. Problem is, he's the biggest jerk I have met in a long time. He treats her like dirt and me too for that matter. If my younger brother (17, I'm 20) is there, the boyfriend talks asks him for my opinion on things. I've tried talking to her but I just get the 8 girls wanted him story. What can I do to help her? I'm worried that comming out and saying it will make her think I'm jealous. (link)
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Talk to her alone after hes treated like dirt. Tell her that it doesn't matter if 8 girls wanted him, if they knew how he treated her, no girl would want him. Tell her honestly how you feel about how he treats her and you. You have to make sure she understands your feelings, that you don't like him undermining you by asking your brother for YOUR opinion. and if she won't listen, or thinks that you want her man, don't hang around either of them. If shes with him, don't go near them. If she's your best friend, she should listen to your concerns and opinion. Hope this helps!
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I have a very true phobia of cotton. It's called Bambakophobia. I have such a huge problem with it. I've had it for many years and it makes doing certain things very difficult. I just can't stand the feeling. It makes me get shivers, feel sick, and freak out.
Not many people believe me when they hear this.
My question is, Is there anything I can do to cure this phobia at all?
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You sound like my 6th grade teacher, he had the worst fear of cotton ever. there wasn't really anything i think that he could do about it, he just had to make sure he was careful with our class...all i can say is dont tell a lot of ppl your afraid of cotton or they may start bringing it around you to freak you out, just tell people you trust enough with that little fact
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i really like this guy and we're hanging out in a few days. he wants me to choose what we're gonna do but i have no idea what to do. does anyone know of some fun things/places to do/go? i need helpp :(
oh by the way im 16. (link)
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Well it depends on wht your guy likes. If he likes skating, then try somewhere like a skate park. or if hes a movie guy, then the movies. but if you don't know, just be creative, thinkm of crazy things you'd like to do on a date, and try it with him, if its possible that is. just make sure where ever you go you make sure you have fun with it, make him feel comfortable and having fun.
hope this helps!
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the song that im looking for has this man singing,here is what he says."because something something something, and now im running and screaming, i feel like a hero..."thats all i no.who knows wh it is by or what the name of the song is (link)
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that song is "hero/heroine" by boys like girls.
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