my parents arer constantly lectruing me all the time which casues me to swear and be reallr yrude and then they wil go on even more and say how i dont apprieciate anything and my dad says he tells everyone what im like its really getting to me now are argue with my parents every day without fail i really cant stand it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Razhie answered Monday October 13 2008, 9:56 am: Well, stop cursing and being really rude.
Arguing with your parents is fine, and that is going to happen. You are going to disagree with them sometimes (maybe all the time).
But NO ONE is going to listen to you or take you seriously once you start swearing and being nasty. No one. Can you imagine cussing out your boss or co-worker because you don't like what they are saying? I don't think so. It's not the proper way to communicate.
The first step in making your parents think better of you, and to ending this arguments in a way that doesn't make you look like an ungrateful brat, is to stop swearing and being nasty.
Listen to them. Disagree all you want, but no yelling and no swearing. You don't have to be a monster to disagree. You just have to wait your turn to speak, and be respectful instead. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
ella15 answered Monday October 13 2008, 9:07 am: im going to guess that your a teenager i agree with you parents can be really annoying maybe there acting like that cause your growing up and maybe your not spending as much time with them anymore and they miss you.ill tell you one thing just be grateful that you have parents.im not trying to lecture you but if you want this to stop you have to really think about what causes the arguements just before they start dont say anything walk away and take a deep breath or try one of my skills look at them and act like your listening give them blank stares .try to work things out or else if you dont they might try to ground you or any form of way that you get punished.if your nice to them you can get your way much easier when you need them.good luck.. [ ella15's advice column | Ask ella15 A Question ]
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