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i might like him ? but does he like me?
okay lets start this off with im 14/f. and hes 14/m okay well he also has a girl friend. its very disapointing but any way last weeekend was our homecomeing were fresh man. and well i was dacening with my friends and he pulled me aside and said i looked beautiful and he loved my dress(aww how cute right?) so i gave him a hug and said you look dashing haha. well now hes on my mind at school sometiems . and monday i think it was i went to give my old boyfriend a hug because were still friends and the guy i like well alex well call him was there! so i gave um adam a hug then alex was like wow rachel way to give me a hug. ha i kinda was like oh im sorry heres a bigger hug for you then.! okay well everyday i pass him in the halls before 1st hour and before thirdrd and after school i see him because i have cheer practice and he has base ball..mmm. he gives me this crooked smile witch is really really cute. and he gives me a hug everyday now. oh and something eles you should know is ive dated some of his friends like adam and his friend scott and i almost went out with his friend edmond. oppps but i all ways thought he was the cutest out of them all. hes allways kinda been there in the back of my head. but hes moveing to the front of it know and im not srue what to do sence he does have a girl friend who he doesnt seem to close to but ive never seen them out of school together. but my questions are. does he have any feelings for me if u can tell should i back off sence he does have a girl frien? these are the things i need to know.
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Being honest when you like anyone is always best. Weather he has a girlfriend or not, there is no reason you cant be honest with him and tell him that you like him. What happens after that is totally up to him. If he breaks up with his girlfriend and then wants to be with you, then you have your answer. If your having feelings of guilt because of the way you feel knowing he has a girlfriend, you shouldn't. He is sending all the messages your way that he is interested. Be clear and upfront with him and say I would never want to do anything to cause problems between you and girlfriend, but I wanted to let you know that I do like you and have for some time now. Tell him you just needed him to know that cause you where tired of caring that around with you, and it makes it hard being around him when you feel that way knowing he has a girlfriend. Also be clear that you are not ok with cheaters. You would only want to be with him if he is no longer with his girlfriend. So if he is interested and does not say anything right away after you talk to him, give him a few days. See what happens and let me know I hope this helps, please let me know what you think...
onedayatatime
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well it a fact that he likes you11 any body thats reads this can tell that but i dont think you should not back off ill admit it will start alittle drama but if you never try you'll never know you should only trust in love(and girl you are inlove even if you cant tell yet)bbbuuuuuuuuuuuuttttttttttttttt you have gone out with some of his friends and he has to see if it okay to go out with you (they still could have feelings for you and could ruin vhis friendship with them) but dont back off because if you do,this will be in the back of your head forever so take a chance
tell me how it goes!i wish you good luck!
Tatianna
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He seems to definitely act like it, fersure. BUT he has a girlfriend, and unless she's cool with all of this (she may not even know!) , I suggest you keep a distance; girls are hella catty like that. I'm like that with my boyfriend. And the last thing you need is to get into a drama-filled argument. But, I'd continue to talk to him, but flirt in a subtle way. Key word here is: subtle. You know, compliment him, hug him, but don't make it obvious you really like him. Like, don't cling on to him, and act obsessed with him. Not only will it show you like him a lot, but it may be a turn off for him. Also, ask him to go out with a group of friends to the movies or something, or ask if he would want to come over (or vice versa) to study or anything like that.
good luck !
kitty
PS i've been in your situation, so i know how to deal with this, haha. There's been quite a few incidents where I've blown it for the whole friendship thing, so that's why i'm telling you to take it slow and keep it subtle.
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