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ok so im sure you get a lot of questions like this but i just need some help
ive been dating my boyfriend for 8 months, almost 9 months and i didn't start loving him till about about four months, and now i can't imagine with myself with anyone else like i really love him and i don't know what i would do if we broke up like even everyone says we make the perfect couple like we've never even had a fight and we've been dating for 9 months almost and i see him everyday and night and i can't explain it i just love him a lot.
well we have a new guy at school he starded this year there, well he messaged me all the time on myspace and stuff and we talk in school quite a bit and im not gonna like he is pretty hot and i don't know theres just something attracts me to him and well he sent me a massage how he thinks im cute and wants to hang out. hes 17 turning 18 amd im 16 turning 17. i mean i love my boyfriend sooo much but out of no where it seems like im starting to like this new kid and i really dont know what to do i feel guilty sometimes because because my boyfriend will catch me staring at this kid.. what would you do if you where in my position?
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I was here a few months ago. I messed up big time and cheated, then felt guilty and broke up with him so he wouldn't find out, then got drunk and told him anyway, and then begged him for months to take me back. We got back together thank god.
Anyways... that was the WRONG way... If I could do it all again, I'd have talked to him about it and told the guy that I'm involved, and in love. If the other guy has any decency he'll back off and stop tempting you. If he doesn't you'll have to find some major will power. Once you find love, you'll know. ^_^
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Being in love is great, and sounds like you and your boyfriend have a nice thing going. Your still young though, and its normal to be attracted to someone else. this is the thing you need to ask yourself though. Spending alot of time with someone new that you are attracted to will compromise what you have with your boyfriend. Basically you are leaving yourself open and could eventinally develope strong feelings for this new interest. My suggestion is this, to not feel quilty in any way. Be upfront with your boyfriend, tell him you need a break or some time to figure things out on your own. You guys are still very young. It takes time to know what you want in life, and who you really want to be with. I would follow your heart on this one, and be honest with them both. Just dont base everything on attraction alone. Its the overall person that really matters. I hope this helps and you an your boyfriend can reamin on good terms with any thing you decide. I dont believe in being sneaky in any way its never fair to anyone. We all get hurt, and we all move on, its the way life is. But always follow your heart, and be upfront its best for everyone involved no matter how bad it might hurt.
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