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My heart


Question Posted Thursday October 9 2008, 4:38 pm

I gave my heart to this boy named Darshak Patel...I loved him and he said he loved me..i no he loved me n i hope he still does, We went to NYC and went to the park and had a awsome time there.so many memories.Then school started and we didnt really see eachother...then he wouldnt call me at all. so i looked on his facebook page and it said he has been flirting with girls and then girls were leaveing him flirty comments and then one of them said see u tommaor night...wtf noo! son i started this whole thing n he got mad..the worst came quickly, He took naked pics of me n put them on facebook and added all my friends. i was soo scared..its not that bad in school its just like i miss him alittle, But then he calls me and he is like o can we have phone sex and im like no.so then he hands up and says ur not goin to do it so i dont wanna tlak to u..His voice is soo sexy its not even funny.i still love him.what do i do i hate him for wat he did...omg what do i do.

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triquetra answered Friday October 10 2008, 8:39 am:
I would ask him as to what he truly feels for you. No person treats another like that, especially if they say that they love them.

His love for you is incredibly questionable because not only has he been dishonest with you (flirting with others) but he also disrespects you completely and from what I've read, you deserve better. And once more, if he did love you, then he would respect your decision about not having 'phone sex'.

Talk to him first and see where the two of you stand on this subject. And if that doesn't work out, then I see no other choice but to leave him.

I hope this helped,
triquetra

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onedayatatime answered Friday October 10 2008, 6:56 am:
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First off, no matter how sexy his voice is, you deserve better. No one should treat anyone that way, and their is no excuse to make what he did ok by any means. Your going to have to put aside your feelings for him, and love yourself enough to move on. This is easy to say, harder to do when feelings of love are involved. Truth is you should know deep down this is not the right guy for you. I suggest finding some new interests, and dont make the situation worse by checking up on him. He has already proven what kind of guy he is. YOU DESERVE BETTER!! Always remember you have to truely love yourself and know what you want out of any relationship for it to work.

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