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creepy ex-boyfriend? My ex-boyfriend called me today out of the blue when I was out with some friends. He was just like, "Hey, I just drove past your house! And I was like, man I haven't talked to that girl in awhile so I figured I'd call..." So I told him I wasn't home and asked him why he was at my house. And it was really strange, because he didn't really have anything to say to me he just wanted to chat we didn't talk long since I was with people. He said he'd probably call me back later on. So what is going on? He is obviously thinking about me. But it seems almost stalker-ish. What should I do if he keeps calling?
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Theres about a 10% chance that it was innocent, he just drove past your house, and decided to call you.
Theres about a 90% chance that he's rethinking losing you and drove past your house in a slightly stalkerish manner.
He also stated that he would call you later, rather than asking if he could. Usually a bad sign, he's not taking no for an answer and not giving you a chance to answer in the first place.
Are you interested?
If not, make that clear. Give him no hope. No "Ive missed talking to yous" or anything like that. Just say hi, ask how he is, feel him out or tell him to go away. ]
it depends if you still like him then ask him to go chill one day but if you dont tell him the truth. ]
if you don't want to talk to him tell him that. tell him it creeps your out and you all haven't talked in a while prior to that phone call and you want to leave it at that. ]
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