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Am I Being Used?


Question Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 3:26 am

Ok well there's this guy, named ummm B. Yeah, it was a wednesday that I met him. Sometimes I instantly like people. Sometimes I instantly dislike them. Besides that though he was one of the ones I liked. Well we started dating later that night or whatever. See he doesn't live in the city I do. It's kinda the next one over but it's kinda close. Well Friday I asked him to come to my school's football game. I'm 15 and he's 17. So he graduated already. & he showed up and everything was good. Later Friday night though he tells me that we rush into a relationship. Which I understand. & That he'll need time getting to know me. Well the only thing he's asking is for me to send him "pictures". Only because he wants to see if he trusts me or I trust him. Some bullshit.

Am I being used though?

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MrsNelson678 answered Wednesday September 24 2008, 7:07 am:
Yes you are definately being used. Do not send "pictures" of yourself to anybody unless you are wanting to pose for playboy or you are doing it as a gift to someone you are engaged to be married to.

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WittyUsernameHere answered Wednesday September 17 2008, 3:43 am:
Yes, you are being used.

He doesnt want pictures because he wants to know you trust him, he wants pictures because he's a horny little bastard and wants to brag.

Guys are full of shit. I am one, and I would know.

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Razhie answered Tuesday September 16 2008, 9:16 am:
Maybe, but no matter if he is using you are not, he is feeding you a selfish, bullshit line.

Tell him trust is something that is established over time when two people treat eachother well and with respect. It can't be tested or purchased with soft core pornography.

If he doesn't grasp that, then dump him, because a guy who can't apperciate that is only really after one thing.

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