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getting a boy back that i lost
i went with this boy back in the 6th grade and it was great at first then he broke up with me for 1 of my best friends.This year in the 8th grade i really really want him back but he is going with my friend still but she doesn't like him.i need some tips on how to get him back can somebody PLEASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSE HELP ME GET HIM BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!(I AM 13/F)
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Well you haven't hit high school yet so I would just not speak to both people. The girl knowingly went out with your boyfriend and realized that she didn't really need you anymore. That you basically meant nothing to her.
The guy is just not a nice person. He might have used you to get to her but that is besides the point. He hurt you for your best friend.
Wanting him back would show him how weak you are and with these things you want to be strong about them so you don't let people, especially guys, walk all over you.
Just do yourself a favor and WAIT until at least 9th or 10th grade. People grow up more. And I think you could too. Not in a bad way but so you'll be able to REALIZE more and know what to do when things like this happen.
I hope this helps!
-KD/f/15
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Ok, first off, you dont ever want to purposely make your friend look stupid as another person on here suggested. First and foremost, that is your friend and you dont want to ever embarass or belittle that person. Second off, I would reevaluate that friendship also because your boyfriend left you for her, meaning she is not such a good friend after all for going with him and pretty much betraying you. Third, please dont be desperate and vulnerable. You do not want someone that didnt want or respect you enough. He went with your friend. That right there shows complete disregard and disrespect for you. He is definately not worth it. No way, no how. He is pathetic to say the least. You do not deserve that. If he left you once for someone else, he'll do it again the next time he thinks something better comes along or even when he just feels like it. Not in any way, shape or form a way to live. I wouldn't be able to rest easy at night being with someone like that.
But, after it all, if you still want him, do not do anything to embarass yourself or anyone else. Thats not the way to go about it. I would just simply tell him how I feel and if he doesnt want you back, so be it. He doesnt deserve you anyways.
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Make yourself stand out do something outrageous to get his attention and make your friend look stupid so that he thinks shes wierd and your not basically wat im saying is be creative get his attention by doing something big good luck:)
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