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My best friend said he loves me
I am 15 and my best friend is 18 he just went off to collage today and last night he said he loved me and wanted to be with me. But he has a GF and he said he loves her more, but that he really wants to be with me and I really want to be with him more then anything right now and its been this way for around 8 months us both having these feelings. What do I do
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He says he loves you, but has a girlfriend? And it doesn't seem like he'd be willing to leave his girlfriend for you (based on the "But he has a GF and he said he loves her more..").
Sounds like this kid needs to sort through his feelings. There's nothing really you can do because this is all on him. He needs to figure out what he wants because right now he sounds very confused.
Maybe he knows he loves you, but he's not sure it's something more than friendship. So when he told you, he was just trying it out, searching for how he feels. You two are best friends, so you probably talk a lot. Maybe he's unsure of whether that connection should be taken a step further.
If he decides that he should stay with his girlfriend, that's ok. You two should still stay friends. Because at the end of the day, it's much better to have a strong, lasting friendship than a shaky boyfriend-girlfriend deal.
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If he has a girlfriend, then he shouldn't be cheating. You should ask him to make a decision: stay with her, or be with you. If he says that he really wants to be with you, you should go out with him.
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you should go out with him and be careful with what you do
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