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me and my boyfriend had sex...


Question Posted Tuesday August 5 2008, 6:24 pm

okay...im 14/f

yes, extremly young.
but enough of that....

me and my boyfriend fooled around maybe..a week and a half ago...2 weeks? and he cumed while we were...then he went into the bathroom and washed up...im not sure if he washed his penis off or not...im afraid to ask cause he might find out. and then he kinda got inside me a little, but not all the way...

i dont remember when i had my period last...i started it for the first time maybe 4 or 5 months ago...my mom said that it's normal to not start a regular cycle after like a year of starting. my breast have been kinda sore...not to bad though. i mean...since im only 14, arent they suppost to be, since there growing? they've always had this sorness since i hit puberty. i dont have to pee alot...the only thing is that my breast are sore, and i havent had my period yet...im not naucious at all...i dont have any weird cravings..i dont have a weird taste in my mouth... could i be pregnant???

my sthomach hasent grown alot..but im not sure when it starts to grow...im to young to go anywhere and by myself a pregnancy test.

thanks for all your help
14/f



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orphans answered Friday August 8 2008, 12:29 am:
It's possible that it's too soon to notice.

If your not nauceous or having weird cravings, you could not be pregnant. It's normal having irregularity in your period so it might be that your period is just irregular.

Try out this Quiz: Am I Pregnant?
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It could be very helpful.

You need somehow to buy a pregnancy test or something to make absolutley sure. You never know. Try your best getting one even though your young. Ask someone that you really trust but if it's too embarassing then talk to your mom or buy one secretly.

Sore breasts is a sign of puberty. It's normal.

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TheSunshineShow answered Tuesday August 5 2008, 6:38 pm:
It's probably still too early to tell, but it doesn't seem like you're pregnant.

Don't stress it unless you don't get your period for a while. And by a while, I mean 2 or 3 months. Or if you start feeling more than a few pregnancy symptoms.

You could just ask your doctor for a pregnancy test next time you're there for a check-up. Ask your mom or dad if you can talk to the doctor alone for a second and do it then. Even if it's a children's doctor, they should be able to give you a test. :)

Hoping for the best,
another 14/F.

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stargirl51 answered Tuesday August 5 2008, 6:32 pm:
See if you can arrange an appointment with your health care physician. If your parents ask, say that you aren't feeling too well or something. It's not lying but not exactly the truth either.

Breast tenderness is normal for your age and around when your period comes.

And please practice safe sex (yes, with a condom) so a scare like this doesn't happen again. Especially for your sake.

cheers,
stargirl

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LOL_x0x answered Tuesday August 5 2008, 6:28 pm:
1. If your breasts are sore, it's a sign that you might get your period soon.


2. It IS normal not to have your period for a few months after your first time getting it. It doesn't get regular until the first year or 2.


3. Just to be safe, however, read this:
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4. You're not too young to buy a pregnancy test, I think you should do one to make sure that you aren't pregnant. Or go to the doctor, the choice is yours.


5. And please, next time, practice safe sex or don't do it at all.


-Laura. (16-f)

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