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My boyfriend wants to do something new
okay so me and my boyfriend have been on and off lately weve madeout but nothing serious. i told him i wanted to wait a while before sex but he wants to do things still and hes getting pissed any little things or ideas you can give me to help my situation. becaise im used to waiting but not him help me pleaseee ill rate you good if you help me quickly
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If you want to wait, then good for you. There is absolutely nothing wrong with abstience, or wanting to wait. I know your boyfriend is getting frustrated and pissed at you, but he needs to respect you enough to be willing to wait. I know this may be hard, but don't give in to him, if you have sex with him just to keep him, he will leave you (I've seen this happen to my friends). I personally am abstinent. I don't mind people knowing that, and you don't want to have sex, thats fine. That is 100% your decision, but please don't do it, because you think your supposed to, that will just lead to regret.
If you don't want to listen to anything I just said, and you decide to have sex, which will forever change the relationship you have right now with him, (you can never go back to the way things were,) please use protection.
All the best, I hope you make the right choice!
The right choice is following your heart!!
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I applaud your decision to wait before having sex, but I don't understand why your boyfriend is pressurising you into performing acts on him. If he cared about you he would wait also.
However, that said, to answer your question - hand jobs are a good place to start. A warm massage to begin with before going lower... Do an erotic dance without removing all your clothes (ie down to a bikini) are two to begin with. Practise safe sex at all times please (you can still get warts on your fingers if he has them), all the best.
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