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my brother in law and his girlfriend
hello there
my brother in law met a girl online and he has been 1 year with her he is 26 and she is 21
he is inlove with her she lives in another country and she came and visit him once. his parents against this relation because she is not the right girl for him, she is from another religion , she is divorced (no kids), and lives in another country no one knows her past. she also works night shift job. i dont want him to marry her because i dont want her to enter the family. how can i stop this relation
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The man is 26 years old. Plenty old enough
to make his own decisions, right or wrong.
There is nothing you or anyone else can do
to change his mind. As a matter of fact,
being told no by relatives when you are 26.
Is probably a sure fire way to push them
together even more. Gives a guy a "You
aren't going to tell me what to do" attitude.
The family doesn't have to know her background.
He does. I've worked night shift jobs. It
doesn't make a person bad.
It comes down to this. If you push him
you won't have to worry about her being
in your family. He will just stay away
with her and you will have neither in the
family.
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Well, I know this isn't what you want to hear, BUT...
How is it his parents or your place to make this choice for him? What gives you the right?
Think about it- Would you want people telling you that you can't be with someone you love? I highly doubt that.
It's his life to live, like it or not. Let him live it. It's about HIS happiness, not his parents, not yours.
ygs-30/f
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Hate to tell you this but you cant really stop him. And if he is your brother in law where is your sister??
-hayley
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