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what should do when im hanging with my crush
okay so my crush asked me if we could hang out together just the two of.....and he knows i like him i told him so.....but him and his gf just broke up like two days ago but even before they broke up he knew i liked him but anyways
i just wanna know what we could do were gonna be at his house so what are some things we could do???
ya see hes not all torn up about him and his breakup so can you someone tel me what i could do to like you know tell him that i wanna be more than just friend????
specifics would be great and like things i could say or they way i should act would be awsome!!!
please and thank you!!
<3
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I know you probably don't care, but I'm just suggesting you spin it around and spend a few seconds in his ex's shoes. They just broke up 2 days ago.
Now I was stupid awhile ago and went out with my best friend's ex (3 weeks after they broke up.) Now that my relationship is over with him, I'm finally seeing how much it hurts to see your ex being interested in other girls too early.
I know this has nothing to do with your question but it's a suggestion.
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i'd say watch a movie, walk a dog (if he had one), go out to eat, go on the computer, and i'd say be really flirty, but not over the top, and if you guys do watch a movie hold his hand put your head on his shoulder, etc. I think you should tell him straight up that you think of him more then just a friend and that he's an awesome person, etc
good luck!
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Give him signs.
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From there:
Smile, touch him [not sexually...], include him in things, make an effort to talk to him and see him, talk to him seriously.
Be yourself, don't act differently. Just be yourself and give him subtle hints. Don't overdo it. Flirt a little! My friend answered a question on how to flirt, and I think it'll help you out.
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From there:
"1. Smile! If you're not smiling, chances are the guy won't be interested.
2. Don't always talk about yourself, let him talk about himself, too! Balance the conversation. Yes, conversations are a HUGE way to flirt more indirectly ;].
3. Think about what you do. Don't just blindly go around flirting with everyone. Some people don't want to flirt, and you can tell by their body language, facial expressions, etc.
4. Be nice. I can't tell you how many times I've seen girls be complete bitches. It's SO irritating. If you're not nice, then it isn't worth the effort. Guys don't like bitches.
5. BE YOURSELF! I know you said not to say this, but as the above question told you, if you aren't yourself- who are you going to be? You aren't being truthful with the guy if you're making up things about yourself or you're doing things you normally wouldn't do. The guy will get the wrong impression and may like something about you that isn't even a part of you.
6. HAVE FUN! If you aren't at least doing that, I don't know what to tell you ;]"
-Laura. (16-f)
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There's nothing like being direct and honest. Most girls try to play games. You stand out the most if you are just blunt and real. Tell him what you are feeling.
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