me and my mom never get along i feel like she doesnt even care aboout me, like yesterday for instance i was sick and wasnt feelin good but did she care no. i wait on her hand and foot almost all the time when she was sick which is a lot but when i just asked her to get me one thing she said no she was to busy paying attention to her stupid cat who she acted like he was sick when he wasn.t and if i even moved she would be like, did she scare you im sorry to the cat. were not rich or anything but she cares more about that stupid cat than anyone else.also there was another time i was sick and i asked her to help me find the thermometerbut she was to busy watching tv so i had to find it myself when i was sick! please help!
Additional info, added Thursday July 17 2008, 3:38 pm: also try not to tell me to talk to her cause she is very stubborn she usually laughs off anything i say to her like im joking or she makes it about her and also she thinks im just here to be her maid and to do all the chores in her house i had been out of the house for 4 days and right when i got home she gave me a list of chores to do like its normal. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? LOL_x0x answered Thursday July 17 2008, 3:10 pm: I'd talk to her. It sounds like your mother and you don't have the best line of communication, but communication is essential in a good relationship.
Tell her you need to talk to her, and tell her what you told us. Let her know you feel as though she cares more about her cat than she cares about you, and that you don't like it. Tell her it hurts you and you want a good relationship with her, but you both need to make an effort. Tell her you just want to know she really does care about you [because I'm sure she does].
MrsCarter answered Thursday July 17 2008, 2:02 pm: wow this must really suck.
i wouldnt know how you feel because me and my mom have a good relationship, but maybe you could sit down with her one night and just tell her how you feel. maybe she'll be kind of rude but really explain to her that it bothers you so much that it seems like she doesnt care!
i hope i helped and good luck!
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Brandi_S answered Thursday July 17 2008, 1:56 pm: Have you tried to sit down with her and talk about how you feel?
I mean talking that doesn't end up an argument. When talking becomes heated, everyone speaks, but nobody listens.
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