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ways to be not as annoying
ok so some of my friends that are mostly girls (but im a boy) are starting to say stuff to me that im getting really annoying and i want to try to stop being annoying cause i like this girl but she thinks im a it annoying so my questions are
a.what are things that guys do to annoy girls
b.what are ways for a guy to stop being annoying
c.what do guys find annoying that other guys do
and..
d.what can i do to stop being annoying to other guys
btw any other information would be a great help
and im 13/boy
thanks
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I don't think you should completely change yourself for this girl. However, maybe you can cut out some of your annoying habits, though?
A. Talk too much about themselves.
- This bothers me so much! I don't want to hear every detail about your life, but if you share some of yours, I'll share some of mine.
B. I'm not going to tell you how to "stop being annoying" because I'm not entirely sure what your girl friends think is annoying about you. Ask her what, exactly, you're doing that annoys her and then go from there.
C. I'm not a guy, so I really wouldn't know.
D. See above.
-Laura. (16-f)
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Listen. Everybody in the world finds somebody annoying.
That doesn't mean it's a good thing to change who you are to please someone else.
So you like this girl. I get it. If she doesn't like you for who you are, then she's not for you.
I know that's not what you want to hear, but if you try to change who you are, then you'll be a fake.
Speaking from the female standpoint: I'd rather be with someone who is annoying than someone who is fake.
ygs-30/f
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I can't exactly say why they are annoyed with you, because clearly I'm not them, but here are some common reasons why people in general find others annoying:
- Talking too much
- Talking too much about a specific thing (For example, always talking about cars and nothing else)
- Asking too many questions (ie. What's wrong? What are you doing?)
- Inviting yourself to events
- Always hanging around
- Butting in conversations that aren't your business
Just give them some space and they'll probably come around.
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