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Does he like me? Or is it just a friendship?
14/f
I'm going to use fake names: the first person is Andrew and the other is Nick.
I started taking classes at my high school early, and, naturally, I got to meet new people and started to hang out with them. Well, Andrew one of the guys that I talk to, and he points out little stuff about me, but not in a bad way (ex. my hair, my shoes, whether I'm talking a lot or not, etc.). I started to hang out with the girls a little more during our breaks, and he always manages to find where we sit, but break is pretty much over by then. Andrew keeps staring at me in class too. Does Andrew like me? Or is he just being nice to me?
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It sounds like he likes you, but you dont know this for sure, Try and find out, ask his friends if he talks about you. The first question you should have asked yourself is do you like him? If so the get to know him, talk to him, see if you have things in common. If you start to lose your fellings for him then just be friends. If your feelings start to grow more, then ask him out, DONT wait for him, YOU take the first step!
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He seems to "like" you. That being said, he also seems to hardly know you. Talk to him more, spend time with him, etc. You need to actually get to know him.
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If I say yes, are you going to get all carried away and start making your wedding plans? If you are, then the answer is no, but if you can keep your cool and not try to take this situation to a level you should not at your age, I will tell you the truth.
If a guy say more then hello to you, he is open to liking you, he is open to being your friend. This is where it should stay for a while, friends. Get to know each other without the pressure of having to preform as a boy friend and girl friend. Let the relationship develop naturally and find out who you are together and apart.
Making demands on each other is not the place to go, finding out about each other is where you need to go. Be calm, take it slow and don't get stuck in something you are not ready to handle.
Be well dear girl and be smart.
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Here are signs that a guy likes you:
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From there:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!
And aside from those- I think he likes you ;]
--Jack
(16/m)
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