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Abstinence how can u keep your relationship exciting without having sex other than like oral sex?
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anal sex is another waii to go if you dont wana do oral sex or intercourse youll still b a virgin with anal sex ]
Do little cute things all the time.
I really can't answer this all to well, Because I've been in my current relationship with my boyfriend for close to a year & we have a baby due november 26th.
We're not suppose to be having sex, But we do.
Just not as often.
Go out to eat.
To the movies.
Take walks in the park.
Watch movies together.
Those sorta things. ]
First of all, oral sex is still sex. Thus the reason it's called 'oral SEX'.
Second of all, you have plenty of other options!
Go back to the days of romance.
Hand holding, pecks on the cheek, forhead, nose, etc. Butterfly kisses. Picnics in the park, dancing in the rain. Watching movies and just cuddling up together while doing something fun.
Romance can be exciting if two people really care for eachother.
I'd rather find a love note from my boyfriend than get a booty call. What's so exciting about that?
I'd rather get some sort of homemade gift such as a scrapbook of our relationship than lengerie I know he wants me to use for him.
Seriously - romance is just as exciting and just as meaningful as sex.
You don't need overtly physical contact for excitement.
If you want something sexual, you can tease him. Lapdances, mini-stripping without becoming completely nude, etc. Guys don't really like being teased. Blueballing a guy is actually kinda of mean when you think about it.
And, as I said before, oral sex is still sex. Just like anal sex is still sex.
If you have either, you're not really a virgin anymore. That's my opinion, anyway. There are a lot of people who agree with that and some who don't...
Techincally, though, you're not abstaining from sex when participating in oral sex. ]
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