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breakup
my boyfriend just broke up with me
we never see eachother because we live in different states
but i loved him. and i still do
i knew it was coming too, but it still hit me pretty hard
he just wasnt acting like a boyfriend anymore
and i told him stuff last night bout our relationship and how i felt about what hes doing to it and he was crying for a while and i tohught it was cute
and hes just like i love you soo much and i never wanna lose you
and then i told him id call him when i got home tonight
and he never answered. i called like like a billion times and then he finally calls at like 3:00 and hes like we cant be together anymore
btu hes like we can still be reallyeally good friends
i just have been getting alot of crap from people (i have too but if he really loved me that much he would stay with me and forget waht people have to say. its a relationship between us too. not the whole world)
and he said i dont know what to do right now i think we should just have a break. but i think he just said that to make me feel a little better.
ive been crying and i dont know waht to do.
i wanna talk to him
but idk what to say.
helpppp!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You're going to love many people in your life and what's wrong with that? You should accept that and take every love for what it is. Right now, I love you and mentally I am sitting beside you giving you a hug. I should not feel this, or experience this?
Love is what we are suppose to do, that doesn't mean we are suppose to be with that person. I will never actually be beside you and will never physically hug you. We will not spend our life together, but does that make the love I feel for you right now any less, or invalid?
Stop treating love as if it's exclusive and understand that it is meant to be given. Don't cheapen it by thinking that it is something that can be taken back, lost, or even lessened by distance.
The decision he is making is the right one, for him, respect that. He lives in the physical, as most of us do. He needs to feel love, not just read it and hear it and so do you.
We don't know what the future will bring, but experience love in all its forms, don't limit it.
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I'm sorry you're so sad. It will take
a while to get over it but just hang
in there.
You're not in a place where you can
see it yet but this is probably for
the best. Life has to be lived in the
now and just typing or talking to a
guy online while life goes on around
you isn't a healthy relationship.
He is wanting to actually date someone,
go places and do things. He can't do that
online and neither can you. Your paths
might cross again someday, you never no.
For now though, its probably best you
just be friends.
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