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relationship problems
hi me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 and a half months im 19 and so is he when we first starting dating it was great he called me every night he texted me all the time and we always had fun together now he rarely calls or texts if he does call its around midnight and if i call him he is always with his friends and either says i cant talk right now or he talks to them the whole time while i am on the phone listeneing and sometimes he calls me when he is with the friends and i just have to listen to him talk to them and now we are always fighting he never invites me to do anything with him and his friends anymore either he awways teels me wat hes doing as hes doing it doesnt even invite me and his friends are over every night and he says he didnt invite them that they have a key and he doesnt even wanna b there with them we never really go out anymore we just sit at home and watch tv he says he is always romantic but i cant even remember the last time he was, we only see each other like 1 a week, we both really love each other but then sometimes he can be really sweet, i just dont know wat to do wat should i do to save our relationship
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Look, I think your relationship just went out of the cutesy puppy love stage and into a more serious stage-the stage where both of you stop showing your best selves and instead show your true selves. The pursuit/romancing stage is over and now the real relationship ends. Sort of like the ending of a honeymoon. You shouldn't require him to text you all the time. You also need to let him have his own life. If he wants to hang out with his friends without you, let him. It's unhealthy to spend all your time with your boyfriend. You should spend time with your friends away from him as well. By giving him space, it will make him happier, and he will want to spend more time with you alone. If you want to go out alone with him, make plans then invite him to join you. Say, I'm going to a movie, do you want to go? If he says no, go alone. There's nothing wrong with that. Why should you wait for him to go out and do things? Don't nag him or be dependent on him. Have your own life too.
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Asking the same question twice won't yield you a different answer. Since all you bothered to do was copy/paste, I'll do the same:
hi well sometimes people change the problem might be him but the problem might also be you too try to rexamine your expectations of your relationship and his expectations and try to come to an agreement on what you guys should be doing and how often fights are common after the honeymoon stage and should be considered normal unless they happen very frequently and/or are very serious if you can't agree on a set of expectations it might be best to break it off since neither of you are happy as things stand hope I helped.
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