hi from 17 yrs old i started masterbution now i m 27 yrs guy next month is my marriage but now a day i feel that my penis is not awaking it is loose & fell sperm in a min. please help me out
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Illnesses? TheFool answered Friday July 4 2008, 4:39 pm: My personal opinion is that there is no medical cause for this to occur. How long has this been happening? I think this is a psychological problem. Marriage is a major life change and the pressure and stress could easily be causing you to not be able to maintain an erection. You also probably feel pressure to perform sexually for your future wife, which could also cause you stress. I would suggest seeing a therapist, or just don't worry about it. It would go back to normal after your wedding when you can relax more. [ TheFool's advice column | Ask TheFool A Question ]
Peeps answered Friday July 4 2008, 3:51 pm: Your English is not perfect which leads me to believe you are from another country. This being said, the next time you ask a question you should add in where you are from and what your native language is (example: "Hi, I am from India. My first language is Hindi."). This will help us understand you better because we will know to read your question slowly to get all of the important details you supply us with.
As for your question, masturbation is unlikely to be causing your sexual problems with your penis and your ejaculation. It sounds like you really need to see a doctor and tell him about what is wrong before your wedding. Your doctor may be able to give you medication to solve your problem if you tell him clearly what is happening during masturbation.
So, in short, we can't tell you how to fix your problem but a doctor probably can help you. Contact your local doctor so he can see you soon so you won't be embarrassed on your wedding night.
I also want to suggest that maybe you are nervous about the wedding coming up and are noticing things you had not seen before regarding your penis and masturbation. It may be possible that this has been an on-going problem but you have not really noticed it because you have never be in bed with a woman and are now nervous about your wedding night and how your wife will feel about your penis.
Comrade answered Friday July 4 2008, 3:26 pm: Please don't lie about your age. Advicenators hate being lied to.
Not even an ungodly amount of masterbation would result in any of the problems you're having now. If you do have some sort of penis-problem like the one you're describing, masterbation is NOT the cause. If you're THAT worried about it, see a doctor. [ Comrade's advice column | Ask Comrade A Question ]
pyromantix answered Friday July 4 2008, 1:49 pm: i agree with the person below me, i highly highly doubt masturbation is the cause of your problem, it's totally normal and actually healthy for men to take part in. i would see a doctor and get a prostate exam, also taking a multivitamin every morning wouldn't hurt. there are special kinds for men that aid with gland health.
thelaura answered Friday July 4 2008, 12:41 pm: I'm finding it really hard to understand this question, but from what I can gather, you should just ask your doctor. There can be a lot of reasons why it's happening - I highly doubt masturbation is the cause for your problem. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
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