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MAJOR ATTENTION SEEKER!


Question Posted Tuesday July 1 2008, 6:52 pm

ive started to ask for a lot of attention..not recently its been happening for a lot of years but i only realised recently! i lie to my friends mostly..but now to family as well. to my friends i lied about how my mum used to abuse even though she did not to the extent i described it and now i lied sayin i have a kidney problem and feritility problem...i want to stop lieing but how? please help me? or ill become someone i know im not :S please thank you and i already know im a horrible person so please dont tell me i am...

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volunteergirl answered Wednesday July 2 2008, 10:33 am:
Hi, okay first step in getting rid of the problem is admitting you have a problem, which is good because you already know that. Next step go look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself 20 true things about yourself. Repeat this process until you feel you are ready to stop. The final step is to apologize to your mom and you friends for telling those awful lies.




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TahTahTorance answered Wednesday July 2 2008, 10:25 am:
Remember how your past lies didn't get you anywhere. And they could've hurt other people. I think that will motivate you to reveal the truth to everyone, and to stop lying. Just keep telling yourself you don't want to hurt other people when you feel like telling a lie. You're not a bad person, because you realize it was wrong and you want to change! That's a good thing :). So I hope it works out for you!

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KlutzyKim answered Tuesday July 1 2008, 10:50 pm:
Ok well
You just got to get to the point
Tell yourself your not a liar
Then maybe the first thing you should do is confess your lies
Thats ALWAYS really hard
I know
I used to be kinda like you
Then;; you need to think when your talking
If you start you say some lie, catch yourself and stop
>_<
This may not be to helpful
But I tried and I hope I helped a bit

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