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Last Update: July 2, 2008
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Uhh this is an awkward question, but for those females that go to the gynocologist for birth control and such, do you shave or not? Also, what is the process like? I'm going to get birth control soon so I'd like to know how it will be so I'm not shocked or anything. (link)
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Oh my gosh, so I literally just went through this like last month. So many people told me it was painless and just a little uncomfortable. But for me it was painful. Not the worst pain in the world but it really did hurt. I went into it thinking it wouldn't hurt, then when the metal stick thing went in my muslces tightened because I was surprised and it made it hurt worse. Just remember to relax!!! And don't worry about them seeing your breasts or your privates, they see that stuff all of the time. My mom helped a lot, she reminded me that they've probably done paps on bigger women than you, smelly ones, gross ones so that made me feel better haha. And it was worth it for the birth control because now my periods aren't so painful.
Sorry, that was really long but I hope it helped!
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ive started to ask for a lot of attention..not recently its been happening for a lot of years but i only realised recently! i lie to my friends mostly..but now to family as well. to my friends i lied about how my mum used to abuse even though she did not to the extent i described it and now i lied sayin i have a kidney problem and feritility problem...i want to stop lieing but how? please help me? or ill become someone i know im not :S please thank you and i already know im a horrible person so please dont tell me i am... (link)
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Remember how your past lies didn't get you anywhere. And they could've hurt other people. I think that will motivate you to reveal the truth to everyone, and to stop lying. Just keep telling yourself you don't want to hurt other people when you feel like telling a lie. You're not a bad person, because you realize it was wrong and you want to change! That's a good thing :). So I hope it works out for you!
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Okay I'm a girl...17.
I've been singing forever; I've won so many state competitions and even some national competitions...low profile though.
I want to make a demo...but I don't play anything.
I've written some songs...they're really good.
So I was wondering if I hired an accompanist and sang the songs for them...would they be able to help me write music for them? I know how I want the songs to go...I mean it's not just words.
But...would that be possible? (link)
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If you're in school, a good idea is to find people in band or some people that have a band and talk to them. They know a lot about music and might be able to help you, for free! They could help you come up with the background music. Some people in school know how to record music too. I have a friend that did that, she got the piano guy from her church to help her write the music and some friends in school knew how to record music. That's just an idea if you don't have enough money for the other one. Good luck!
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and i was in the restroom then i came back i saw them kiss what should i do (link)
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That's called cheating. And personally I'd break up with him because you deserve someone that respects you.
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what shoulf i do my boyfriend bj and i going to a school prom and i don't know how to slow dance and i really want to go with him what do i do (link)
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Slow dancing really isn't hard at all. The most important thing is your hand placement really. Just put your arms around his shoulder. He should put his arms around your waste. Then after that just sway to the music really. You'll be fine :)
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hey i really liked your advice and thanks again
but i have more questions about this lol >.>
well so i have to have the courage and walk up to some people and talk...alright then how does that start?i mean what do i start of saying? hey im sara......ok?lol what are some good topics i can start for the first time when i meet people,i really dont want to be a loner or wait for people to come up to me>.<
and are there alot of racist people in college?cuz i dont think i can tolerate that!>.<
thanks again and sorry if it wuz long^_^ (link)
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Oh no it's okay I love helping people out! I agree with you, I can't stand racism. But college is like a melting pot and everyone I've met was so cool about our differences! I'm sure there probably are some racist people but they're probably quiet and don't have any friends because no one likes that type of attitude!
Now if you walk up to someone and introduce yourself. I find something that it looks that we have in common maybe. One girl I walked up to her and started a conversation on her flip-flops because they're from my favorite store, and now we're good friends! Find something positive to say to them, and there's a good chance you'll hit it off and be friends.
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I have a very close friend who is going through a horrible time right now, we dated before but now hes had horrible luck with girls and he isnt eating and hes hurting himself. Im getting extremely worried about him and I knwo that music means a TON to him. So i was wonderring what are some really good songs I can get him to listen to about staying strnog and beating whats happenning to him.. anything that will relate to this situation would be a great help. Thanks (link)
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Stand In The Rain-Superchick
Beauty From Pain-Superchick
Breathe Today-Flyleaf
Don't Give Up-Sanctus Real
Dear Friend-Stacie Orrico
Hope For The Hopeless-A Fine Frenzy
Little Victories-Matt Nathanson
The Thing About Love-Alicia Keys
This Year's Love-David Gray
You're Not Alone-Saosin
Um I think the Saosin one would be the best for a guy. I hope that helped even a little bit.
I tried to do different types of music because you didn't say what his preference is.
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i really wanna put some blue in my hair. not the whole head, just like, underneath so it'll show when its up in a ponytail and when i straighten my hair. but my parents INSIST that i cant. how can i convince them to let me due my hairr???
HEELPP! (link)
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Maybe start with something not so drastic. Like blonde on top and dark brown or black underneath. When they see it's not as bad as they think they might realize the blue wouldn't be so bad!
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hey^_^ i want to ask how wuz it like your very first day of college?were you guys nervous and scared?is it easy making freinds in college or are people going to act mean?im actually a very freindly person who likes getting to know new people but since im going to travel to america for college im kinda nervous about how to make freinds and how people might act>. (link)
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Well I haven't started school yet but I've done orientation and stuff. I do a lot of things where I don't know people and here's my advice. Your first day just remind yourself that everyone there is like you. They probably are nervous about making friends and stuff too. You just have to talk first :). Once you do that they'll probably be thankful and it won't be hard to make friends. If a few people are mean don't let it discourage you, not all people will be like that :D
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