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Member Since: July 1, 2008
Answers: 18
Last Update: December 11, 2013
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I'm 16 and obese. I've been trying but the pounds just won't drop. (link)
Im on weight watchers. Im on a budget so I do it by myself no meetings. It works!


what are the pros and cons of geting a nose ring? (link)
its very hard to get it in and out, i took mine out and kept it out to long and it grew back.


okay so in the bar where you type in the website...is there a way you can delete the websites???
thanks. (link)
deleting ur browsing history


I know your sick of this question but please answer it!! Yeah ok I do like a guy and I heard he likes me but I'm afraid to tell him I like him or ask him out to the school's dance. What should I do? (link)
life is short
take a risk
ask him out


I cant decide which color I like better, so, could someone help me?


They're all me, by the way..


BLONDISH..
1)

http://i261.photobucket.com/albums/ii68/xocrystalox99/125.jpg


2)
http://i261.photobucket.com/albums/ii68/xocrystalox99/SANY-1.jpg


DARKER BROWN...
3)
http://i261.photobucket.com/albums/ii68/xocrystalox99/Untitled5.jpg


4)
http://i261.photobucket.com/albums/ii68/xocrystalox99/crystalandjenn12.jpg

on the left^


If you guys dont like those colors and would like to suggest a different color, that'd be good too! I'm trying to figure out what hair style i want before I head back to school, so thank you!


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i think the fourth link the one with the dark brown one looked really good


Hi. I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been together for a year and 4 months now. When we first got together, I remember him telling me about how his neighbor would beat his wife all the time, and he said this with admiration in his voice. I asked him if he thought it was okay to hit a woman, and he said yeah.
He does have anger problems, and the least little thing would set him off.

He used to tell me not to come to his house unless his cousin was with me, and one time I did go without his cousin and he huffed and puffed and balled up his fists, and turned sharply and walked away...later on he told me that he was going to knock me across the yard...he would always tell me how badly he wished he could put his hands on me and put me in my place. One time I was standing outside his car, and he hurt me by pulling my arm halfway through the window and pushing down on it from inside. But he never hit me.

But now he's taking medicine to control his temper and things are much better, and it's like he's a different person. But not long ago, I went to a friend's house, Don, to do his hair, and my boyfriend followed me there and hit the gas and kept speeding past the house, back and forth like a maniac. Then he called everyone he knows and got them to call me to tell me how much he was sorry, etc.

Another thing is that one night he took my cell phone from me and went through it and started calling numbers he didnt know, accusing me of cheating. When I tried to get the phone back, he almost hit me. Then he cornered me, grabbed my face tight, and told me that I had better not be cheating on him.

I'm afraid of him, so when he does things like that, I just lower my head. Then, when we're on the phone the next day, he laughs about how scared of him I was. Now he's told me that he doesnt want me to talk to Don at all anymore, even though I've told him constantly that we're just friends. And to top it off, he's trying to get me pregnant. I've told him I don't want kids right now, but he keeps 'forgetting' condoms or takes them off when I'm not looking. He has actually told me that he wants me to have his baby so that I can't leave him.

He's really a sweet person, and compared to what I went through when we first started dating, our relationship is peaceful now. But now that we're supposed to be living together soon, I'm worried that he might change and go back to his old ways. Call me crazy, but we have a great relationship when he's not angry, and I don't want to leave...I've tried leaving him in the past, but he cries and begs for me to come back. Since he's been taking his medicine the only time he gets really mad is when he thinks I'm cheating or something.

How high is the chance that he's going to become physically abusive in the future? Would this already be considering abuse or controlling behavior? Any thoughts/advice is appreciated. Thanks! (link)
i would get out of the relationship cause he has already expressed that he thinks its ok to hit a woman and he is already showing signs of abuse and plus he doesnt seem to listen to anythhing you say but thats just my opinion


anyone knw of any GOOD muzik?? i mean like the latest hitts or whtever!!!! please help!!!! im runnin out of muzik to listen to!!!


thankz in advance
-cuttechick24 (link)
all around me-flyleaf
i kissed a girl-
take a bow-rihanna


14/f
Okay. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. Up until now, he's only met my parents but this Saturday I'm going to a cook-out party with his family. I really want to make a good impression. He is my first boyfriend so I have no experience in this. Besides being polite do you have any advice on how to impress his parents? (link)
ask a lot of things about them, be yourself done fake it!


well it my bf bday in like 5 days and i still dont have a present i have no idea what to get ?
any ideas??

fav coulour -- black and red
very punk
he's into punk music
skateboarding
drumming
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leather jacket, new skateboard


i need something to calm me down, im like always stressed, sometimes feeling like dying, i would never kill myself though. im always crying over the stupidest stuff and sometimes over nothing. i went to therapy before and it helped and all but i dont want my parents to know somethings wrong with me cause then my siblings will make fun of me and i'll just feel worse. they already call me fat and every other. my parents call me crazy i have no ne to talk to and i dont really like talking about my problems. please help me, i just cant feel this way anymore. (link)
you should go ut and do something fun to take your mind off it and invite a bunch of your friends


Hi um...
My friend.. Bill.. his dad and his dads girlfriend just broke up and Bill's wicked upset. His family has like no money and his real parents are divorced. I know its really none of my business but I wanna cheer him up. I don't really see him but we can IM and e-mail. What should I do? Anything will help. Thanks. (link)
send him stuff like flowers, or u could take him 2 a concert


I just want to speculate here... I think that our teacher (high school) is going to pick a very big musical for next year in school. She's already done things like Oaklahoma!, Seven Brides for Seven Brothers, The Sound of Music, and Beauty and the Beast. We need a musical with more girl parts than guy parts. What do you guys think that we might do? Oh, by the way, I already looked up Wicked, but it's on Broadway still, and I don't think anyone will be getting the rights to it anytime soon. Any thoughts would really be appreciated, as I've already talked to my family and friends about this, and they are bored to death with the subject! (link)
high school musical,grease,conrad birdie


So the premere of that was on this past Tuesday night on abc family. But I missed it :( So does anyone know a good website that I can rewatch the episodes?

thanks (link)
it comes on abc family again tonight at 10 pm


what should i do if a friend that use to care about you and help you out when you needed it, now he will never help out when i need it or if someone else does. (link)
wat i think you should do is sit down and talk with them, and make them listen !tell him how you feel. and if they still dont listen then id suggest getting some new friends


Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and a few days ago his friend got on the phone calling me nasty names.

and i figured out my boyfriend got wasted and madeout with another girl.


i love him but i dont trust him.

i am misrable without him. should i give him another chance? (link)
well if it was me i wouldnt cause if they cheat once they are gonna do it again also you can check out a great book its called "he's just not that into you" it can help you with all your relationship problems


im in love with my x still and its so hard to move on..
but i realy wanna move on.someone please give me some advice on what i should do.. (link)
wat i usually do is get rid of all the stuff he gave me or wrote my like emails comments etc


15/f
okay well my bf birthday is coming up. i dont know what to get him.we have been together for a more than a month going on two. he is a very chill guy like rock music. Any ideas? (link)
my boyfriend is the same way i bought him a leather jacket from kohls he already had one but i bought him one anyway and now he wears it all the time


i'm really irregular like the last time i got my period was two summers ago so tht means im not like ovulating so i cant get preg can i? (link)
you need to go to your doctor cause if you dont have a period you can get cancer




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