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friends, my ex and a very tough situation
ok well this is a tough situation,me and my ex broke up about a month ago after about a year and 9months. it was heart breaking and very hard for both of us but we were just fighting so much and we werent happy no more so we called it quits. we have decided no to talk as much but we still do once in a while. we both still care about eachother very much though. ok this is were it gets hard,in skool we have the same group of friends so we are all pretty close and well one of his friends likes me and well we stared to talk and we ended up kissing. witch was a mistake because we didnt think of wat was to follow that decison,but i liked it. well my ex found out and was furious he has threatend to fight him. ok we will give him a name because it gets more confusing ok well"bob" is the one i kissed and the one who is good friends with my ex well. so things got really bad there bob and my ex are no longer talking or friends at all i feel really bad about that and knowing my ex he will mostlikly fight bob. that is wat worries me alot wat do i do about that? but i dont know i mean bob is so sweet and nice he treats me so well and i admit i do like him but i have been trying to push him away because i am scared of wat will come when skool starts again.i dont know wat to do with bob? ok and there is one more twist another guy who is also part of this close group of friends likes me as well and well we had a thing last year but we never got a chance to actual see if any thing was there so we just kinda for got about it and well me and my ex were together and he ended up gettin with one of my friends who is in this group but they broke up and well when me and my ex broke up we started talking again and well now i m starting to like this guy alot but i dont know wat to do about him because he is alos frineds with bob and my ex this whole thing is so over whelming and cofusing and im so lost i dont know wat to do at all wat is your advice on my situation????? i am a 16 years and a jr in high skool!
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well i think that first of all you need to straighten this thing uot with you ex.talk to him and tell him that you two broke up so he has no right to get mad because you like someone else.
for bob ,you should decide do you want to be with bob or the othr guy before any more trouble starts up, like if bob and the other guy wanna fight.
if you really like this other guy then and you know him well and you know he likes you then cause you know him more than bob,right.
so if you wanna be with bob you have to let the other guy know how you feel about bob,but if you wanna be with the other guy tell that to bob,tell him that you like someone else.
about your ex, you need to talk to him and let him know your not his girl so he has no right to fight someone else over you when you. especially since you like bob bacc.
now its either bob or the other guy you decide who your gonna break it off with
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You need to decide what is right for you. If you want to be with Bob, then by all means, do it. Your exboyfriend has ZERO control over that. And while he may have a reason to be mad, he has no RIGHT to be mad. You two are NO longer dating. Therefore he cannot be mad about who you date or what you do. It isn't up to him. He's obviously jealous.
If you don't want to be with Bob, then don't. But don't not go out with him just because you're scared of what your ex will do to him.
If you want to date the other guy, then do it. If you don't, then don't.
My point is that you are independent of your ex, and having him be the deciding factor in your relationship decisions is just wrong. He should have nothing to do with them. He's your ex boyfriend for a reason.
--Jack
(16/m)
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