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ok well this is a tough situation,me and my ex broke up about a month ago after about a year and 9months. it was heart breaking and very hard for both of us but we were just fighting so much and we werent happy no more so we called it quits. we have decided no to talk as much but we still do once in a while. we both still care about eachother very much though. ok this is were it gets hard,in skool we have the same group of friends so we are all pretty close and well one of his friends likes me and well we stared to talk and we ended up kissing. witch was a mistake because we didnt think of wat was to follow that decison,but i liked it. well my ex found out and was furious he has threatend to fight him. ok we will give him a name because it gets more confusing ok well"bob" is the one i kissed and the one who is good friends with my ex well. so things got really bad there bob and my ex are no longer talking or friends at all i feel really bad about that and knowing my ex he will mostlikly fight bob. that is wat worries me alot wat do i do about that? but i dont know i mean bob is so sweet and nice he treats me so well and i admit i do like him but i have been trying to push him away because i am scared of wat will come when skool starts again.i dont know wat to do with bob? ok and there is one more twist another guy who is also part of this close group of friends likes me as well and well we had a thing last year but we never got a chance to actual see if any thing was there so we just kinda for got about it and well me and my ex were together and he ended up gettin with one of my friends who is in this group but they broke up and well when me and my ex broke up we started talking again and well now i m starting to like this guy alot but i dont know wat to do about him because he is alos frineds with bob and my ex this whole thing is so over whelming and cofusing and im so lost i dont know wat to do at all wat is your advice on my situation????? i am a 16 years and a jr in high skool! (link)
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well i think that first of all you need to straighten this thing uot with you ex.talk to him and tell him that you two broke up so he has no right to get mad because you like someone else.
for bob ,you should decide do you want to be with bob or the othr guy before any more trouble starts up, like if bob and the other guy wanna fight.
if you really like this other guy then and you know him well and you know he likes you then cause you know him more than bob,right.
so if you wanna be with bob you have to let the other guy know how you feel about bob,but if you wanna be with the other guy tell that to bob,tell him that you like someone else.
about your ex, you need to talk to him and let him know your not his girl so he has no right to fight someone else over you when you. especially since you like bob bacc.
now its either bob or the other guy you decide who your gonna break it off with
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There are two guys which I am attracted to for different reasons. One of which I don`t even know but WiLL know come the end of summer, the other a very sweet guy. Being a bit of a risk taker, my heart says go for the one I don`t know once he returns. My head says the sweet guy would make a great date for all of the grad events and I actually know he likes me and we are able to get along well.
I have made pro & con lists for them, myself with them, & the benefits of having a relationship with either of them. However, typical me, I have decided that I wouldn`t hurt either of them (or myself) nearly as much if I chose neither & separated myself from both of them completely.
Why am I backing down if I can`t really go wrong with either option? My original intention was to have a bit of a fun summer 'fling' (meaning not a serious relationship) with the sweet guy, but after chatting with him tonight I realized I`d really hurt him if I did that then put my attention into getting to know the other guy. What are my options? In your opinion, which option is the best? Thanks so much for the insight, it`s greatly appreciated! =) (link)
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well if i were you i would follow my mind rather my heart cause it is smarter....but also you should stay in touch with the sweet one,but at the same time you should get to know the other guy
Once the end of the summer comes then you`ll know enought for you to make a wise coice and follow your heart and mind...
Also just get to know the one that you already know,even more and then see if you still like him the same or in a more/less way then you did before
And for the guy that you dont kno, do the same.get to know him then see if you like him the same as you did before or more/less
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