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How do I choose between them?
17/f
There are two guys which I am attracted to for different reasons. One of which I don`t even know but WiLL know come the end of summer, the other a very sweet guy. Being a bit of a risk taker, my heart says go for the one I don`t know once he returns. My head says the sweet guy would make a great date for all of the grad events and I actually know he likes me and we are able to get along well.
I have made pro & con lists for them, myself with them, & the benefits of having a relationship with either of them. However, typical me, I have decided that I wouldn`t hurt either of them (or myself) nearly as much if I chose neither & separated myself from both of them completely.
Why am I backing down if I can`t really go wrong with either option? My original intention was to have a bit of a fun summer 'fling' (meaning not a serious relationship) with the sweet guy, but after chatting with him tonight I realized I`d really hurt him if I did that then put my attention into getting to know the other guy. What are my options? In your opinion, which option is the best? Thanks so much for the insight, it`s greatly appreciated! =)
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well if i were you i would follow my mind rather my heart cause it is smarter....but also you should stay in touch with the sweet one,but at the same time you should get to know the other guy
Once the end of the summer comes then you`ll know enought for you to make a wise coice and follow your heart and mind...
Also just get to know the one that you already know,even more and then see if you still like him the same or in a more/less way then you did before
And for the guy that you dont kno, do the same.get to know him then see if you like him the same as you did before or more/less
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hm, looks like you've thought through this a lot :) Just remember, no matter what any one says, it's YOUR choice. Do what makes you happy. I think you're backing down because you're just a nice person. You don't want to hurt either one of them. And that's ok, if it's what you want to do. Well, if I were in your predicament, I would go for the sweet guy. Reason? He likes you, you two know each other, and he's sweet! Or, you could just have a summer fling with both of them and then choose when the summer's over? :] either way, goodluck, hope you choose the right one!
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